im pragnant?!?HELP

  • ryeann
    17 years ago

    im pragnant..,or so i think..,1 test said yes..,2 said no...,3 said yes..........,dont start with the congrst im only 15

  • Sherry Lynn
    17 years ago

    Firt babe, you need to go to the doctor or planned parenthood to confirm it. There is no reason to get frantic without knowing for sure.

    Secondly, if you are then you need to tell your parents and decide what is best for you. Right now just stay calm until you know for a fact.

    --Sher

  • Amanda Barker
    17 years ago

    I agree, but if you are then try and aviod abortion at all cost, but if you want to then ok but just remember you can go through with having the baby and give it up for adoption unless you want to keep it. Also, remember that abortion is murder and that is a fact.

    Amanda

  • Kasie
    17 years ago

    Ok hun,
    First you need to find out if you really are or not. The home test aren't always correct. I took a home test and it was positive, but I went to the doctor to take the test again, and it was negative. Just relax and don't panic until you know for sure or not. And if you are you need to talk to your parents about it. Oh and If you can help it try not to get abortion, unless it's what you really want.
    I know it will be difficult to talk to your parents about it, but it's the right thing and you obviously can't hide it from them forever. Your parents might over react, but just stay calm with them. If you over react with them then it only makes things worse. I can't honestly tell you what they will say about it, because we all have different types of parents, some are strict, some are calm and understanding, some are both, and theres alot more. Just remember to stay calm and don't stress to much about it. Oh and if you want to keep the baby it's your choice. Just try to avoid abortion at all cost. It's painful to you and it's taking an innocent life. Well I hope I helped
    Kasie

  • starsnsmiles
    17 years ago

    If you are pregnant, it is completely your choice, whether you choose to keep, adopt or abort. Don't let other people pressure you into having a baby you don't want, or aborting a baby you do want.

    I know a lot of people are going to have a go at me for it, but seriously, if you want to abort it then do so, but make sure you think about it a LOT.

    People that try and tell you not to abort are wrong, because pro choice is the only choice - even if they personally wouldn't abort, they can't force you into a decision, and what's right for them isn't necessarily right for you.

    So yeah, get a test done at the drs, and if you aren't pregnant, make sure you learn form this mistake and get contraception sorted, and if you are...tell your family, maybe a couple of close friends, and the father of the baby, and discuss what you should do with them, but remember, ultimately, it's your baby, and your choice.

    PM me if you want any more help/advice; a couple of my friends have been pregnant, and so I'm pretty good at advice giving now, and I'm not going to try and pressure you into any decision!

    Good luck love x

  • UnderAge Dying
    17 years ago

    maybe you shouldn't have had sex if you didn't want to get pregnant.

  • lexie
    17 years ago

    so the last couple were pretty harsh,just ignore people like them.definitley go to the doctor and find out if you really are.and if you are,you're not alone.i live in a kinda rough town and i know many young moms and pregnant girls.one of my best friends has a child and one is pregnant,the pregnant one is sixteen.my friend has a two year old son,shes also sixteen.
    if you are pregnant tell your parents.if you live with both let them know and the guy.hopefully he stays with you.and if he doesnt make sure you have a really good support system,its gonna be a rough nine months.
    if your not pregnant,take it easy for awhile.lol,just be more careful and i know its tempting,but maybe take a break for awhile.i'm not sure if its available everywhere,but where i live girls can get birth control for free.they just go to the school conselor or planned parenthood and fill out forms,plus your parents don't have to know.well,good luck with everything girl and i hope it all works out for you.
    --lexie

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    "I'm sorry, but anyone who can't spell pregnant should keep their legs closed and a school book open.......If you are, I hope nothing but the best for you and your child, if you're not...whew!"

    ^^^

    Ditto

  • ms.understood
    17 years ago

    yea, sorry but i agree with the people who were called harsh.if you dont have sense enough to prtect yourself when you do stupid stuff to screw up your life, its your own fault.

  • starsnsmiles
    17 years ago

    Jeez. People make mistakes. Get over it.

    There are such things as accidents. Condoms aren't 100% foolproof, and there are situations such as rape, where the victim has no say in the matter.

    Anyway, she wasn't asking for lectures on how not to get pregnant; she asked for advice on what to do if she is pregnant, so that's what we should be talking about.
    We should be wasting our time telling her she shouldnt have got pregnant in the first place, she's has sex, there's no point in telling her to 'keep her legs closed' or whatever. It's too late for that, and there's nothing that can change it is she IS pregnant, so let's just focus on helping her instead of making her feel worse.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Well for a start you could figure out what you're going to do with this baby. It's a big deal and you need to start collecting information. Ignoring it won't make it go away so go to a family planning clinic and get advice.

  • kori
    17 years ago

    TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!!!!! Please don't make the same mistake so many teenagers make these days. Your parents won't be that angry with you, they'll just wanna help you.

    You have to tell your parents as soon as you can.

  • starsnsmiles
    17 years ago

    *They may be angry/shocked initially, but once they get over it, they will want to help

  • cowgirlstar26
    17 years ago

    find out if you are, preg test are stupid unless you get them at the dr's office. mine lied , said i was but really wasn't I freaked out for nothing.

  • Hatori
    17 years ago

    I'd ask your doctor, we can tell you if your actually pregnant or not. Someone else said to tell your parents, and I agree, they should support you 'till the end, even if you are pregnant.

  • ryeann
    17 years ago

    thank you every1...,i talked to the father and my parents.., and yes truns out i am:)P but im really..,really scared

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    I'm pretty sure I would be terrified as well... big change. What are you thinking about it?

    Babies are great, though : ). They're cute and terribly vulnerable and just make you smile. If you decide to keep the child once it's born, then I wish you the best of luck - it's a blessing, no matter how confusing things might get. If you truly wouldn't be able to take care of it, though, and decide it would be best to put him/her up for adoption, then I wish you luck in that as well. Congratulations, in any case.

  • ryeann
    17 years ago

    thank you a lot!!! im think the day he is born..,wut if sumthin goes wrong? im so scared

  • Normal is the Watchword
    17 years ago

    Honestly, have faith and dont stress out it would be bad for the baby.

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    I can't say I know much about pregnancy, but really... think of how many babies those hospitals deliver every day! You'll get lots of information from doctors and people, so you can know what to expect. Also, maybe you and your parents and possibly the father could go to a family planning place? Or.. I don't know. There are clinics that help people along in this time. In the meantime, just stay healthy, alcohol free, drug free... and follow the rules, and there's a lot less chance that anything could go wrong. God bless and good luck!