you're my best friend but dont talk to me!!!

that's what my friend always say. she doesnt ALLOW me to talk to her whenever i feel like it nor just hang out together whenever possible. what is that all about?

She obviously isn’t a friend doll. If you want to call someone your best friend, you cant tell them not to talk to you. Half of friendship is based on communication right? Sharing things, talking, spending time together. I don’t know the history between you and your friend, because obviously if you have a past that means a lot to you or a past which is extremely important to you then you should try to talk to her, and ask her why she doesn’t want you talking to her, it could be that she needs some space. However, even if that’s the case she isn’t going about it in the right way, because she’s quite obviously upset you. If your friend and you don’t have a history, something really special, then I would say she isn’t a very good friend and you’re probably better without someone who is making you feel so upset .
Im sorry, I know friendship can be one of the most upsetting and heartbreaking things, good luck though. If you need a friend don’t hesitate to email =]
Lotsa love

thank you for your answer, now you're being a greater friend that she is. thank you =)

oh babe anytime at all! =] How're you feeling?

i dont know i'm really in my confusion phase at the moment. i like her a lot and thats whats actually keeping me from going into a fight with her. but she shows that she doesnt care about me AT ALL! and i cant deal with that kind of pain anymore... it's too much!

If she's going to be rude about when you can and cannot talk to her tell her you don't want to be a friend.

Friends DO NOT tell other people when they can and cannot talk to them or when they have to or can't hang out with them.

I think your so called friend is `stuck up`.

thank you for your answer. so all of you think i should end this friendship?

I think you should end it Imediatly[sp?]. Personally I hate people who would only allow me to talk to them at a certian time or place. I just say screw it your gonna be the boss of me then go boss someoen else because I dont wanna be bossed around.

END IT! Theres alot more people who deserve a great friend like you!!

you know what? i think i'm gonna ent it you're right no one has the right to boss me around and specially not a so called friend of mine! i'm wondering why i haven't ended it sooner. it's propbably coz i was afraid and still am by the way...thanks for your answer it means a lot

tell her how you feel. it takes two for a relationship; whether it's love, family, or friendship. There is no relationship if only one person is controlling it.

Bye

P.S. Gathering the courage to do something that seems hard is a more valuable strength than that of a 2-ton weightlifter.