Advice please...and ty

just so you kno.. my name is cookie..

ok.. i still have feelings for my ex.. but i want to move on... but i dnt think i can because he was my first.. well everything...my first real bf.. my first kiss.. my first guy to meet my parents.. my first.. time.. my first love... but i want to move on sooo badly it hurts cause i kno i can't... i want to cause he cheated on me.. he hit that other gurl to.. he never hit me tho.... he told me he loved his ex more then he loved me and he hit her too.. which really hurt.. cause i kno her.. i dislike her... and then theres my bff.. hes wonderful.. i cnt go a day without talkin to him.. we tell each other everything... we're always together.. people think we are dating.. and it hurts me to say that we're not.. he said he has feelings for me.. but he doesn't want to risk our great friendship.. and i admire that.. but i really don't kno wat to do... i don't think i should have feelings for any of them.. but i cant help it.. i need some serious help...

I can't say that I know what you're going through, but I CAN try to help.

I think you should move on. You're bf cheated on you, that's dishonest and direspectful. "Find a guy that adores you, not one that you adore"

I know that sometimes it's really hard to hear, but listen to your heart. What does your heart tell you to do?

You should try to forget about your ex. A guy that beats and cheats is not worth it. As for your bff, you should give time as to get over your ex first. I'm sure that if your bff really likes you he'll wait for you...but don't go out with your bff just to get over your ex. Really not a good idea..lol, knew someone who did that.

WOW! that is like my life all over again... i am goin through the same stuff as you but without the guy hittin the girl part... i would have to honestly tell you to move on from the other guy...my reason is if he "loved" you when you guys were going out he would have respected you and not cheated on you.

I say move on there is someone out there for you and you may think he the one but give others a try.
dont date your good friend either. Me and a good friend tried it and now we aretryin tro patch thingsup because things got so difficult and we werent as close as we could have been.

okay.. thanx a bunch ppl