all for one, and one for all

hey guys, i'm here to listen to everything you have to say and maybe try to help if i can. we're all here for one another and you can talk to me about anything. so go ahead :)

i think in my opinion and i dont know if im right or wrong but i think you should gather both of them at the same time and ask them if you did anything that might have keft them mad at you because you noticed that their ways of behaviour towards you have changed. now if they tell you no, then you ask them to stop this childish behavior because it is bothering you.

Okie here's my life at the moment: My nan has terminal Ovarian Cancer and suffered a heart attack last week she now has (hopefully) temporary Dementia and I hate visiting her. She has no short term memory and can't hold a conversation anymore, am I a bad person? I'm in love with my best friend. I lost my virginity to him this New Years and 2 weeks later he picks up a 14yo chick (he's 18) IN FRONT of me. He's completely broken me apart inside. It hurts so bad I don't know what to do. I got fired from my job and now I have no income. I own 2 horses and need to find a job quickly or I will have to sell them. Problem is I live in a country town and there ain't no f*ckin jobs around. What do I do now? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

my nan has problems too and everytime i see her i become really upset so sometimes i rather stay home than go see her coz it will avoid me getting sa and stuff. i dont think you're a bad person i just think u shose the bad person to be with and lose your virginity to.
i'm afraid to give you an advice for your job at the moment because i need to think about it a lot before i give you such advice. but i think you ought to get your job back or find a new one quickly.that didnt really help you i know. i'll think about it and then reply back

It's ok. Thanks I really needed to vent and having someone to listen to me really helped. Cheers :)