first guy...wrong guy? confused

  • XxFallenxFromxGracexX
    17 years ago

    im not very good with guys and they dnt really like me cause im not very attractive and im really shy...but a new guy just came 2 skewl and he likes me he's told my friends that he thinks im beautiful and yea...the only thing is that he kinda mixes with the wrong crowd as in drinking/smoking parties etc... my parents would kill me if i went out with some1 like that...but no one has ever liked me b4...i was just wondering if any1 had any advice on whether i should take a chance and go out with him if he asks me...or stay away from him and his crowd...im just a bit confused

  • Kasie
    17 years ago

    Well hun,
    If you really like this guy then I say go for it. You might be able to change his mind about drinking and smoking later on within the relationship. Just don't try to push him to do it though. Just remember not to hang around his friends when they are doing it. Or if you do then try not to pick up their bad habits. But like I said before if you really like this guy then go for it. But first you need to ask yourself if he is the right guy for you and if you want to take the chance of taking up the same bad habits as he has done. Hanging with the wrong crowd can pressure you into doing unimaginable things. You also need to ask yourself if you just want to go out with him because you think he is the only guy that likes you.
    I'm pretty sure that there are other guys out there that likes you also. But it's your decision don't let anyone make the decision for you. I'm just here to give some advice, and others are too. So just go with your heart and try your best to make the best decision. Well I hope I've helped any. Good luck with your decision

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  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    Do not go out with him just because he's the only guy that likes you!!!

    The person above me is wrong, you can't just change someone, unless it's over an icredibly long period of time. You can't expect him to stop what he's doing, and lose a bunch of his friends, for some girl he just met.

    I think you like him for the wrong reasons; wait for a guy that you actually like (and can somewhat respect), instead of just taking the first one that you can find who likes you.

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    first the real question is do you like him. If you dont then dont care. If you like him though you wouldnt care waht your parents thought and youd talke with him about drinking and smoking. But dont do anything if you dont like him;