need advice please

I didn't know where to post this, but please forgive me if I posted in the wrong category(sp?).

I need some advice about what I should do about my boyfriend talking about his ex's. I mean sometimes it doesn't bother me, and I'm not really jealous about it, but when he talks about his ex gf's to me it kind of hurts me. I love him to death and I want him to talk to me about everything, but when it comes to him talking about his past relationships and the great memories he's had, it makes me feel like I'm not that great of a girlfriend.
I know that I am his one and only and we are
getting married soon, but it still bothers me. How can I
try to avoid being bothered by it?
Also, some of his friends want him to break up with me, because of the fact that he can't go out with them and pick up girls. Even his brother suggest that he breaks up with me, because I like to shop. (I don't shop all of the time, just when I need something. Which I only go shopping for clothes about 4 times a year, if that much.) He told me he wasn't going to break up with me, but it still hurts and bothers me that he has people pressuring him into doing it. I know he wouldn't even consider doing it, but I just want his friends to like me. They don't even know me at all.

Please if anyone has any advice on what I should do, or whether I should talk to him about it, please tell me.

Thank you for your time
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your 16 and gettin married???
write me on one of these

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so i can give you betta advice

First of all: put the wedding off. If you're even a little upset about his ex-girlfriends then you're not ready to be married. You're young anyways; you've got time.

You just need to accept that he has memories without you; just as you have memories without him. Talk to him, I'm sure he can make you see that you shouldn't be upset better than anyone on this website can.

You should try talking to him, and maybe try hanging out with his friends? Try to put the wedding off if there seems to be so many problems. Like they said, your still young.

just go and talk to him, gee. you should not be thinking bout marriage if you are worried bout stuff.

david