ONLY TWO YEARS!!

  • Paige
    17 years ago

    Alright, this weekend I went away to this big camp thing. I met this amazing guy named Josh. The first night we met, we connected right off the bat, and the whole night we cuddled and held hands and stuff. I thought it would be a good start to something. But then the very next day, when I told him how I felt, he told me that he didn't know what he felt because we're two years apart (he's two years older than I am). I told him it had never mattered to anyone else before because the guy I date are always a year or two older than I am, but he insisted it didn't feel right. What I don't understand is that it's never mattered to anyone before, and why on earth would he ahve led me on like that if he didn't feel anything for me?!?!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Guys like to do that. So don't feel bad.

  • Paige
    17 years ago

    But I don't get what he's doing?

  • Paige
    17 years ago

    And how can I not feel bad? I mean he was so different! He actually talked to me like no one else had before...we actually connected. And the whole weekend, he didn't evne look at another girl the way he had looked at me.

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Wanna know something,

    Maybe he thought you were his type that night and then after he rethought about it you weren't his type even if you guys connected.

  • Paige
    17 years ago

    Yeah...well I did think about that...but Idon't wanna believe it...you know?
    And why would he lie then...he knew he could jsut tell me...we both said that honesty was important...

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Yeah I know how you feel Paige.

    Jesse ( my now ex for almost 2 years) and he knew EXACTLY what to say and I fell for it. When a guy gets u high enough they'll walk out right as your on ur peak of `happiness`.

  • Paige
    17 years ago

    It really sucks...and it left me so damn confused. And like...usually its the other way around. Usually it's me who doesn't fall very hard...but the guy does...and now it's the other way around. It sucks big time!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    I kno. But now you know how the guy feels.

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    or, maybe he was kind of thrown off that you were pushing to define your relationship after knowing each other for only a day? Hopefully you can keep in touch - maybe something will grow

  • Lori Lee
    17 years ago

    maybe he just thought that you were going to take it further than holding hand and cuddling. (he is an older guy after all) they're kinda like that. and when nothing happened maybe he was just like, whatever. idk.

  • Han84
    17 years ago

    well tht is blokes for you,
    yeah maybe he thought i really like u etc and then had a rethink n changed his mind but at least he told u n was honest with u the next day a few blokes i no they carried on seeing me a few times then told me so tht does sucks..

    but u now know how them lads felt!!
    yeah u could have scared him off by being so forward bout feelings etc after one day... blokes like to make the moves...

    erm move on n forget him