Confused love

  • Lynn
    17 years ago

    Ok theres this guy thats been my bf for some time now and hes moved away.....i really like him but lately we've seemed to be separate. He doesn't call much anymore and i miss him so much. I don't want to let go and i don't know what to do. He says he likes me but i've been questioning lately....what do i do??/

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    17 years ago

    Let go
    Long distance relationships are too painful and so not worth it because they usually don't work out.
    You're young- you don't need him

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    woooooooooo i totally dont agree with this person. First tell him simply how you feel. Ask of his opinion. If he truly likes you alot and you him then things can work out. Set up a plan. See if you can visit. Ask your parents if necessary but you must ask his opinion. You must ask yourself how much you like and is it worth it.

  • Finalgravedigger
    17 years ago

    waht your 13, it might be a little early but yeah if your mature enough then you can hanle a long distance relationship, but uh your a little young.

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    17 years ago

    I'm talking from experience.

  • NonsensicallyNeurotic
    17 years ago

    I know someone who's had only long-distance relationships, and she's fine. Make time to go see him, tell him your worries. If it's meant to be it'll work out fine.

  • NonsensicallyNeurotic
    17 years ago

    Somewhere, you don't know the whole situation. How can you make an assumption? At least give them a chance.

  • In_Your_Eyes
    17 years ago

    I personally believe long distance relationships can work out great. I had one myself, and being apart for so long made seeing him so much better. If you make it through the separation you will be so much stronger for it. Don't let him go. Talk to him. If it is meant to be it will work out. Maybe he feels the same way. Good luck!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Personally if you really think you can handle something like this and accept the fact that maybe he is a little busier since he's moved to not call you as much, if you think you can handle that relationship then you can keep continuing it.

    But if you really want someone that is closer to you and can see you everyday then let go of the first guy and move on.

    Do what your heart tells you!!