When is it Okay?

When is it okay to give up and move on with your life after a break up? Me and my ex start talking and then he changes his mind and says he doesn't care what i do and shit! I know he does and it's just like I'm not the type of person to give up on someone! I still love him to death and all but i feel like I'm harassing him and I just dont' feel that's right but i wanna get through to him! I want him to see that he still loves me and cares about me! I want us to be friends and he knows that but he's acting like a total jerk! I don't know what to do or if I should just give up! But I really don't wanna feel like a total mess up! If you think you can help please try! I need all the help I can get!

Dont give up.. just give it time.. if you're sure he still really loves you then everything will sort itself out with time, but if you push too hard you might just push him away. Just try being friends for a while, and if he still doesnt show any interest or stop acting like a jerk, then move on and find someone better.
I know this will take a lot of patience on your part though. Good luck, I hope everything works out for you :D

Yeah I can't even get him to act like a friend but thanks anyways! I gave up last night!

Just give up on him la....little girl there are much MUCH more guy out there waiting for you....don't fear time..????We got a lot....so here my advice if he still act like jerk then let him be a JERK rather than still loving him try loving othersss...i know it is not as easy as said but trust me....you will realize it sometimes in the future....

DIDN"T YOU SEE MY LAST POST I DID GIVE UP BUT THANKS FOR THE POST

NEVERMIND THIS POST ANYMORE!!!! ALL HE HAD WANTED WAS SEX, SO I WASTED A YEAR OF MY LIFE FOR HIS SELFISH ASS!

LIVE AND LEARN!!!!!!!!!