buying presents.....

I know Christmas is a long way away but i am thinking, I want to get my exsomething really special but what if he just gets me something small? It sounds wrong but i would feel weird or even visa versa. Same goes with every one else, what if my sister gets me something like a gold bracelet and i get her a pair of socks?!! Does n e 1 know what i mean? For my lil bro, i will just give him batteries and say "toys not included"