Why are guys soo F***ed up?

heyya kt....
well my first advice to u is that u need to talk to this guy...no matter how bad it hurts. tell him that u arent commited but u cant stop thinking of him. it hurts knowning that u want this person to know but u cant tell him and if u dont then u are goin to regret it...love hurts... but just think about what he is goin thru...just talk to him and see what is goin on..hope that kinda helps..keep me posted..~~~*~~~Val