How do u noe when its love?

Like you said, you're young. When you're young... you tend to want to experiment with a lot of things, it's part of growing up or because "everyone is dating." I'll try my best to help you but, I have to admit.. I've never really felt what true love is. No one is perfect so never expect a perfect relationship. The real thing though.... I think, you should wait, wait till you get older, you'll find out what love is. Everyone will have their time. It sucks though doesn't it!? Needing to wait and you get very erkitated by being hurt all the time.. sometimes it's like true love doesn't exist! lol.. but I hope I helped you at least a little.

It's amazing.

You feel giddy, needed, accepted, wanted, happy, optimistic. There's a hundred different combinations of things you'll feel when you fall in love. And it's the best feeling in the world.

I never believed it when people said you'll just know when you are in love- but it's true. One day it will just hit you.

Ohh...lol my bad. Yeah, like Jaime said, you feel loved and wanted...

After the "falling in love" part isn't too shabby either - because that's when you get the truth. after that wonderful haziness fades off, you get to see the person in all their flawed, messed up, paradoxical glory. at this point, you have a decision. you can decide that you loved the falling more than you loved the person, persay - you loved the giddiness, and you want it back again. I think that's still a kind of love. OR, you can decide that you love this flawed individual, God and beast together in one form. you can love your closeness with them, your attachment, you can love even those things that annoy you about him or her, because they are a part of them. and... the cool thing is... they can still make you giddy sometimes.

hope this gives you something.

Yeah I agree with Sibyllene! I also think that it was just the thought of having someone love you and that giddiness you feel from it. At first, you're falling in love with all his corny lines and cute smiles, then after that.... you see all his imperfections... his flaws. then it's gone... if you really like the dude you'd put those flaws aside, then i think that's true love.

you are never too young to know what real love is. the is no rules on having to be a certain age or anything.

when its real love you are always thinking of them, you smile whenever you hear their name, you smile when you see them, you want to be with them forever. love is special. but when you are in love, true love, you will know.

david

It's beautiful, but fragile.

The minute it starts to crumble...it ages in quality, and turns from something lovely and satisfying, to ugly when looked up close.

But if you have true love alongwith mutual sacrifice, you've found heaven.

I don't know if he feels the same way; but when you're eyes meet seven times within one hour- you know it means something :).

I might have an answer for you on this one. When I first met my future husband (looong story, but we both feel the same way even though we are only 16) I was 13. I was new to my middle school and he was in my art class. After seeing him, not having talked to him yet, I told my new girl friend, soon to be my best friend, that I was going to marry him. I didn't know his name, or anything about him, for that matter. I was struck with such an overwhelming sense of what someone might call puppy love. After spending a year mulling over the idea, I finally talked to him about it. He was so suprised because he had felt the same way about me since I had first moved there, but he was afraid that I wouldn't like him. It was love from the start. We dated for 3 months, and because of some outside problems, (like him moving =[ ) we broke it off, but continue to talk often. During one of our more deep convos, I told him that I had fell in love with him and not to freak him out, but when I first saw him, I knew that I was going to marry him when I got older. To my suprise, he told me that he had said the same thing to another friend when he first saw me. Now, we send each other letters, and plan on seeing each other over the summer. I haven't seen him since he moved away at the end of 8 grade. I'm now in 10th. I'm actually awaiting his phone call soon. I still get the butterflies in my stomach and my heart does this...er...thing, I can't really explain it, but I feel an overwhelmingly amount of happiness. It's indescribable. I hope I helped!

~Ciao

ur never to young to know im not gonna tell u some long story but u know seriously u just know u really just kinda feel it in ur heart "youll relize its love once it has come"

aww thanks a lot... =] We have gone through a lot (evil stepmom on his part and him moving four hours away) but by just talking to him I know that there is no where else I want to be and no one else I want to be with. I hope that whatever happens for you, that you can have the feelings I have now. =]

Ciao

Okay, I don't believe in love at first site- you need to know a person and accept everything about them before you can love them. But good luck to the person above me.

thanks very much Jaime

Ciao

everything about him. I once read somewhere that when you are in love and someone asks you what you fell in love with, you can't tell them because it's everything. it is awesome. We are both going to work in similar fields and we are definately gonna be very happy =]

Ciao

thanks thanks thanks!! =] I also commented on your poem Love is I loved it!!!!! It was so awesome! Keep me updated in your love situation.

Ciao

edit thank you hun! =]

When it's love, you'll know... You can't really describe love.

You Just know.

I love him more than I ever thought possible.

Sure it does. When you feel it you'll know, you wont ever have to question if you love or not cause when you love you know you do. If that makes no sense to you, you haven't loved.

I once saw a quote that kinda works in here.

There is no past tense of love
you either [do] or you [never did]

Ciao =]

You always feel something for your ex if you really loved them..
Love doesn't ever go away but the way you love them changes.

My parents for example.. They are divorced and have been since I was 8. They will always love eachother not being in love but have love for eachother because they gave eachother me my sister and my brother.

yeah nicole pretty much hit the nail on the head with that one =]

Ciao

Well no one can really decsribe love with words it's just a mixed feeling. You will no it's love when you don't question it. Persay you think your in love, but then you start asking yourself questions such as..."Am I in love?", "Is this true love?", "Will we last?", and something of the sort. It's really hard to desribe. But if it's love you wont question whether or not it's real. And just like another person stated in here age is just a number, you can fall in love at any age. Hope I've helped some what.

it changes. like with my ex Josh. He treated me pretty badly, but i still loved him, but now that I think about the relationship, I was in love with the thought of being in love not with him. you may still love someone but you may not be in love with them. does that make any sense?

Ciao

hey, just an update for Christina. I'm going for it. I'm gonna talk to him about dating again. I'm sick of all the losers at my school. Even though he's 4 hours away, but step-dad loves him and told me he would meet his parents halfway and let him come over for vacations and long weekends. =] Wish me luck, I'll call him a little later.

♥Ciao

When you love someone, it comes from a deep relationship. One that has progressed and developed fully. Love doesn't happen over night and one of the worst things is saying "i love you", when even the best of people don't realize whether or not they mean it. Love is a bond that doesn't easily break apart and takes a while to form.

Good luck on that. You just gotta hope for the best.

=D =D =D Yay!!!!!! I just got off the phone with him and we're official!! =] Gosh, I've never been this happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

♥Ciao

Congrats!!

I know this isn't what you want to hear, and it's already been said, but wow.. you really just KNOW...

There's really no way to describe it in words, because w/e I say will be so inadequate...

And also, your probably right, they probably aren't really in love.

if ^ is referring to me, =] I try to think that I have found my one in life.

Ciao

ps. thanks everyone! =]

You have no explanation for love.
And if somethinks they do have it they're stupid as fuck :/
YOu know when your inlove .
Thats all.