Does he like me???

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    Ok, I’ll try to keep this short. I want to know if this guy, Jon (that I like), likes me too. Just a little background, we’re both 16, and have been friends since the 4th grade. We hang out every break at school, but never outside of school. I used to like his stepbrother, but I don’t know if that bothers him. Also, his best friend (as well as mine) likes me, and the whole ‘guy code’ thing.

    Anyway, he seems to flirt with me a lot. Like he looks in my eyes, does favors for me, always tries to make me laugh, and teases me (playfully) sometimes. Sometimes I bring my video camera to school, and whenever I do, he tries to hog my attention the entire time (lol though he doesn’t have to try). Also, once a bird pooped on my shoe…so I sorta freaked out. And he went to the cafeteria and got napkins and cleaned it off for me. Oh also, he has another group of friends that he went to for half the lunch everyday, but now he just stays with us ever since I started hanging out with our best friend.

    So now we’re in PE together (I’m not very good), and he’s always giving me tips on what to do and everything. And always encourages and gives me compliments when I do something right. Also, on valentines day, I got roses from a ‘’secret admirer”, and Jon kept ‘joking’ that it was him. Who knows if he was serious or not, but he got down on one knee w/ the flowers and said ‘will you be mine’ but I don't know if he’s just playing, because a few other guys in the group did the same thing! Also, I know guys don’t really notice when you change something, and whenever I get a haircut he says ‘nice haircut’ and today he noticed I had sandals on for the 1st time this year, and had painted my toenails and he said something! It’s kind of weird…people kind of think he’s gay…but I really hope he’s not. Does he sound gay?

    I had our mutual best friend as if he likes me. Jon said no, but I didn’t know at the time that our best friend still liked me, so Jon could’ve just said no to not start a war.

    There’s more, but I’m sick of typing, but if you want more info let me know. Do you think that he likes me? Is he gay (lol)? What should I do?

    ~*Who Cares?*~
    please help

  • You[complete]Me
    17 years ago

    well he doesnt sound gay. and he seams interested in you. and have u told him u like him?....and if you havent, maybe you should start ther.who knows maybe he DOES like you. but from how u put it i think ther is a pretty good chance he does....

    GOOD LUCK WITH EVERYTHING:]

  • aDORKable x3
    17 years ago

    go for it! good luck! It sounds like he likes you!

    Ciao

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    well..ive hinted a few times. like yesterday was his bday, and i sent him an ecard, and i wrote on it a 'less then 3' (it deletes my message if i acutally use the symbols) and love erika. and i plan on telling him, but how? and what if he doesnt like me? then it'll be way awkward and who knows if we would b friends nemore...

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    I wouldn't know if he's gay or not based on what you said (is there a reason people think he's gay? I don't know why people would think he's gay unless there is some sort of a reason). However the whole noticing things about you doesn't make him gay, that just means he is interested in you.

    Next topic, just tell him how you feel. It's worth it, especially if you do really love him. If there is a possibility that it might just be a crush I would give it some time because you don't want to ruin a friendship over a crush, but if you're sure that you love him then there is no reason to wait.

  • tears i cry
    17 years ago

    hey my name is katie and i think you should tell him i mean hes ur bestfriend he isnt gonna hate you im goin out with my best friend and i was the one who told him i liked him so i say you should deffinatly go for it i mean if he likes u GREAT if he doesnt it wont matter

    xx

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    You could ask him in a jokey way and see what his reaction is or tell him straight out that you think you're falling for him but you're not sure. Then you could easily backtrack if things don't go to plan.
    The signs are kind of there though.
    *Gem*

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    well...one of my good friends sorta...TOLD him i liked him today...cuz i was absent from school...im so nervous to go to school tomorrow..lol. i hope this isnt the end of our long friendship....:/ thanks u guys though. i hope ur all right.

  • aDORKable x3
    17 years ago

    Hey, if he's ur best friend he won't end the relationship with you. I liked my best friend, and I told him multiple times over a few months, but what we have is a great friendship. Yesturday, I told my other best friend that I really liked him and I wanted to know if he would date me again (yeah, again.... whoops on my part) he said yes. =] Don't be nervous, just go into school with your head held high and when he comes to talk to you, don't act any different than normal. Hope things work out for you!!! :D

    Ciao♥

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    thanks:) i really hope this goes ok lol. i a scared to come back from away on AIM because he's on haha. i've been waiting for hrs to ask my friend that told him what he said and stuff....but she is gone somewhere...UGH. lol im not so much nervous, because i mean ive liked him for YEARS....but im just scared it'll be kinda awkward or something....idk though. i guess i'll have to wait to either ask my friend or see him tomorrow.

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    well i finally talked to my friend, and she said he said that he knew already and doesn't care..:/ i guess that means he doesnt like me...but eh who knows

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    he dare say that?--than y did he neel down to you and sid will u be mine?--dat s dum.

    i think it's time to stright this thing out!!--if he said he doesn't care--than y did he do allthose stuffs/--

    JUST GO TO HIM AND CLEAR THIS STUFF OUT!..
    that guy is making me mad

    P.S: or did your fren lie about he not caring?

    ~SECRET~

  • Xx.Lovely.xX
    17 years ago

    Honey : WHY DID HE ASKED YOU : " WILL YOU BE MINE" even if it was a Joke. I Really Do Think That He's Hiding The Truth.. YOU HAVE TO FIND AN ANSWER! :) Good Luck

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    i had 4 friends talk to him about it when i wasnt at school, and all of them said the same story of him not liking me.

    but now i have another problem...:/ i need help. ok so last night for chorus we had to spend 6 hrs round trip in a bus, and i was in my ex's bus. well i accidentally overdosed on motion sickness pills (NOT INTENTIONAL!) and so i was kinda out of it. and i dun remember much of last night. however, i do remember logan (ex) telling me to come sit w/ him (my bus buddy fell asleep), and so i did and instantly he put his arms around me and kissed my cheek. we ended up kissing and stuff, and he asked me out. but then this morning he doesn't remember last night much either, all he remembers is us getting out of the bus together....:/ so we talked about it..and here's our convo after i told him he asked me out and kissed me and stuff:

    Logan: hey. listen about what happend...im sorry..
    Me: its ok
    Me: im correct in thinking u were just out of it and it meant absoluetly nothing, correct?
    Logan: um lets go with that.. idk yet..
    Logan: i gtg
    Me: ok
    Me: we must finish this later tho

    what do u think he means by he doesn't know yet? what the heck? im so confused...he's still not back. it's been 2 hrs. ahhhh what am i supposed to think. im losing my mind....

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    we were all really tired. not many people remember what happened last night.

  • Wasted Fake Smiles
    17 years ago

    nvm. ignore everything. i hate everything and it doesnt matter anymore. this post can be locked. i dun care anymore.