Guy Opinions Appreciated... Girls Fine Also

What do guys look for in a girl? Because most I've been with have said personality, looks help... yada yada... but what does it really come down to?

All the guys I've been with have said I'm...
---beautiful
---sweet
---caring
---thoughtful
---smart
---unique
and
---and over all amazing person

...So why is it that I can't seem to hold on to a guy? I just want to know I guess... I don't want the whole "She has to be like this... and has to do this..." I just want some genuine answers from guys... tell me about your dream girl? I suppose that's a way to put it...

*Any feed back is appreciated*

Hmm.All of those qualities are good,I suppose.

But for me,it's be that,but the most important thing to me is someone who is honest and trustworthy.And also loyal comes to mind.

That's the most important qualities I look for.

As well as she has to be able to make me laugh.

As to why you can't hold on to guys,I can't tell you that from what you posted. I'm sure there's reasons,and it's probably not entirely your fault.

Maybe it's as simple as you're just not looking in the right places.

Good sense of humor, and a gorgeous smile.

^That - and an impressive intellect :).

Just be yourself and wait for the right guy to come along. Don't read all of the replys you get on this post, and change all of your characteristics to fit what somebody else wants in someone. Just wait for the right guy to come along. Don't go changing.

And you can't hold onto guys right now because you haven't found the right one yet. Don't worry, your time will come.

Well Eternity... you may be right. I guess I'm just not sure what to do... I don't give in sexually. I always stop the guy if I feel unconfortable and I dunno... I guess when they keep pushing it, I tell them that they need to respect my limits, and if they back off a little, that's good I suppose, yet others don't... and that's fine... I'm sure they're good guys... and... yea they want things, but it may not necessary be from me. I'm just realla confused... my best friend and this guy I've kinda been dating had something going on behind my back... and I'm honestly not sure which hurts more... having a guy do that to me... because he was a really nice guy... or simply losing my friendship. And she's still acting like she's my greatest friend and how much she "loves" me as a person... All in all... I'm just upset.

*I'm not trying to get advice to change myself, if I'm not perfect for someone, so be it, I'll be good enough for someone else...

I guess I'm just impatient and tired of sitting around waiting for someone good to come along. I'm not looking for the one... I don't need him yet... I just want someone that will treat me right and will be honest with me... such as tell me what he thinks about my best friend before he screws her...

~~~Well thanks a ton guys = ) Anything else is welcome here... so keep posting...

DON'T IGNORE UR FREN--for watever--y don't u just talk to ur fren about you being upset of what is happenning behind ur back-i'm sure she'll respond something..and look carefully hw she responds it..and think to still call her you fren or jsut ignore her?..and ya if the guy is dat gud as u told us..dan he shouldn't hav done dat behing ur back..but sometimes even if you are good...you can't stop your self from doing something bad..u no..

an i'm sorry to hear this..

so you say--you don't want ur PRINCE yet--but jsut a friend!!--but you--well i dont no how to explan to you..so---i don't think i'll also..for it won't make no sense :p

dis much
~SECRET~

Naw... now he's acting like a total dick. He is hooking up with my best friend right in front of me in the hallway... and it's a bitch... because I really started to like him... and I mean I put him first before any other guy... whom were only just friends... I mean I was an idiot and said that I can't talk to them anymore becuase I thought that that would make him happy.

Well just to let u know
the kind of girl i look for isnt the kind that only focus's on her looks but also is sweet fun to talk to and u know makes me feel good about who i am, and isn't afraid to b herself, but im in love with this girl that i think is perfect for me but i haven't let her know it yet

For me

pretty eyes
pretty
atheletic
smart
funny
caring
trustworthy
wonderful laugh
wonderful smile
someone who brightens my day

and... someone when i hear their voice it melts my heart and i feel like when they leave i lost my personallity... to a certain extent of course

exactly

Thats exactly how i feel about my gf right now....

and i just spent time with her today... and i didnt want to leave but when i did something was missing and when she said bye... it melted my heart...

lol u and melted hearts......but i get where u r coming from =)

My dream girl.. hehe...

my height =p.. just.. gotta get that out there first.. haha.. hehe ummm.. I should be able to hold an intelligent conversation for more than 5 minutes. I look for someone who I can relate to and have alot in common with and who isn't afraid to show their TRUE personality around me...

Ummm.. if you want me to into MY personal specific prefrences... I've always "dreamed" of a girl who had the perfect voice who could sing a duet with me... a girl who's spontaneious and not afraid to just get up and go without a plan =)... I girl who.. even when we're grown adults, would still do the whole look up at the stars with me thing and nice long walks in the park =)... umm... she would also get my sense of humor and not judge me by my past, but moreso try to understand it instead.... A girl who would like to travel.. and a girl who wouldn't mind naming her first son Calvin.. hahaha (i've loved that name sense I was 13 (now 17 =p) )

most importantly =)... when I talk to her she should make me smile no matter what's going on in my life =)

^ You nailed me except for the last part...Calvin? Mm mm, I don't think so buddy!

Hmm..perfect guy...Someone who is honest, who poses an intellectual challenge, who laughs easily, and who isn't afraid of adventure! I suppose good looks are nice too :)

It would be generalization, but I guess I look for girls that pleases me based on 3 different perceptions. My body, my mind, and my heart. Physical attraction, intellectual connection, and just love. So far though...no luck on catching one to satisfy all 3. Dear Ruler...I'd give you 2 out of 3 because my mind and my heart is with you =P

To the creator of this thread: You need not know what guys want...but you need to know which guy(s) would want you as you are...good luck :)

^ Good advice.

Haha! 2 out of 3? That's good enough for me ;)

Wait a second...I don't please your body? Well...maybe not yet I don't! Heh.

^I know...I've been waiting and longing for your physicality...*droools* =P

^Hahahaha! You crack me up. Silly boy. Blahh -rolls eyes-

oh yeah and isnt as dumb as a rock =P