advice plz(sorry if its long)

  • Ashleigh
    17 years ago

    There's a new guy at school, his name is Mathew. He started coming to my school at the start of school this year and he's in one of my classes but I only started talking to him last week.

    Last night we were talking on msn and we said stuff to each other(he said stuff to me in Italian and I said stuff in Spanish).. but he accidently gave me the english translation of it and he was embarassed.. Anyway, today at school i sent him an email during class asking him(because he was acting weird) if what he said was meant for someone else and he said "yes ... it was ... meant for another person...." So I got angry at him, because I had all these thoughts about how he lied to me.

    During the lunch break today my ex bf asked if i was okay, and i said no so i told him what matt said( my ex bf is friends with him) and he said "i'll talk to matt for you".. So he did, and when i went to go talk to my ex about something i saw matt(because they hang around each other at school sometimes) and my ex said i misunderstood what matt meant and said i should talk to him... so i did, and he said the " ......" meant sarcasm.....

    But during class when i was upset about it, my friend jess talked to him and asked who he liked if what he said last night was meant for someone else and she came back saying he wouldnt tell her..........

    i don't know what to think.... if what he said last night was meant for someone else, and then him saying today that he was being sarcastic about it, then why wouldnt he tell my friend jess who he liked??

    What should I do? is he leading me on??
    :(

  • Jaime
    17 years ago

    No one can really say how he feels, except for him. So go talk to him yourself. Don't send your ex to talk to him, or your friend; just walk up and talk to him. Not only is that way easier and less dramatic, but no messages can get confused that way.

  • Marcus
    17 years ago

    I agree with what the others are saying. But don't go getting mad at him. I have said so many things to people on MSN when they are meant for someone else but because i talk to a alot of people at once, i get mixed up.
    Sorry if this isn't what you want to hear, but you have to keep an open mind. He may have genuinely meant this message (whatever it was) for someone else. And you getting mad at him is a bit our of order considering you're not going out or anything. He's allowed to say what he wants to other people.
    Sorry hun. But hey, the other two may be right. You'll never know unless you talk to him.

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Sorry, that was me that wrote that. ^^^
    I was on my fiancee's (Marcus) user. *Gem*

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    u said he won't tel ur gf wo he likes en?--well than i think he likes you--and ya i think he's shy..and bout that--wrong msning ppl..well i think that really was meant for you--and i think he thought he said it to fast--so was like forcing himself to well act like it wanst ment for you--u no wat i mean?--[god i never make ani sense]

    well--and ya don't tell ur ex to go an talk to him--if he likes you than you may be hurtine him..

    just be patient--and see what happens..if he donesn't want the relationship now--than wait-if you want to...just be his friend-and dont' get so mad at this lil misunderstanding..it happens..JUST BE HIS FREN for now--until he comes to you and asks you......