I'm hopeless...

  • *~elika~*
    17 years ago

    I like this guy. A whole lot. My problem is that I can't get over him. Even if I know that I'll never have him... Help! please...

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    I'm going to say something you don't want to hear, but it's the truth

    "Give it time"

    I was in your situation and i thought i would never ever get over him but after about three months, i met someone new who i loved so much more.
    If it's meant to be, it will be hun so keep your chin up and keep busy
    *Gem*

  • LadyPearl
    17 years ago

    You sound like one of my close friends. She was so obsessed with this guy that she even told me that she needed to stop being so depend on a guy to make her happy. If he said hi, she would smile the whole day. If he didn't, she would get depressed and sulk around complaining about his bad points and other possible girls.

    Advice in words ain't gonna help much if you can't get it over yourself. Think about all the guys in the world waiting to me you. Just wait. Don't let a single guy distract you or you might end up regretting your lost time.

  • Dominique
    17 years ago

    oh sweetie dont worry about it, almost every girl has been through that before, i know i have. thing is believe it or not you will get over him these things just take time..although i know that probably what you dont wanna hear. if it helps what worked for me is try not seeing him as much as you do like reduce the amount of time you spend together..that whole out of sight out of mind thing really works

  • Startle Me
    17 years ago

    I've never ever felt that way before.
    And I guess I kind of envy you.
    But if it were me I'll do whatever I can to have him.
    But that's because I'm really selfish.

  • Startle Me
    17 years ago

    Move on hunny.
    Or do what I always do, steal the guy.
    Make him like you.

  • *~elika~*
    17 years ago

    Just so you guys know, I still didn't get over him but i appreciate your advice. Thank you so much for your concern. Maybe I'm just stuck this way... I really am hopeless...

  • *~elika~*
    17 years ago

    damn it... maybe i need more advice.... help?

  • firexdancer
    17 years ago

    believe me, im in this situation right now, and i know that practically the only thing i can do is wait,

  • Natalie84
    17 years ago

    Tell him...or get over it!