Confused..Sorry its long

hey, i know this guy is all you can think about, i know he's stuck in your mind like a bad habit that you just can't kick. i've had this problem many times before. what i do is: tell them that i like them, ask them do they think there's a possibilty that we could get together; if he says yes, then cool; if he says no, then just say ok and leave, then forget him. i know it's a bold step, but you can't let him have power over you. the only power he has is that which you give him. so if you want to be with him (and he's single), tell him so. and if you're not sure whether or not you wanna be with him, tell him anyway b/c his response will help you make up your mind b/c he either likes you or he doesn't. and if he doesn't, it's ok. first loves/ crushes are very special people, and you'll always remember him, but in time you'll get over him. so it's a bit risky and a little bold, but you could just tell him how you feel. if you want to, just jump; could it be worse than the agony you're going through by not knowing what his feelings are? at least this way there's closure. closure is like a band-aid; it doesn't stop the wound from hurting, but in time, it protects and heals it.

good luck with whatever you choose to do. and no matter what happens, you'll still be you, you're still loved, and you'll be ok. ;-)