lost and hopeless

  • StJimmy
    17 years ago

    Well, I am currently with a guy who is friends with my ex boyfriend with whom I am deeply in love with still. me and my ex are still really close and we want to be together but there are alot of problems like my friends now hate him and I have no idea if I should go out with him again and risk losing my friends

  • aDORKable x3
    17 years ago

    okay question... are you with your ex's bff? Anyways, if you're not, then go for it. To be honest, true friends should never judge and they will be happy if you are happy. Talk to your ex and I hope that things work out for you!! =]

    Ciao♥

  • StJimmy
    17 years ago

    well I introduced the two of them! my ex cheated on me last year so that's the reason my friends don't like him. but my heart says he really cares and I spend WAY more time with him than my own boyfriend! It's just really hard to decide what to do. me and my ex know that we want to get married and my current boyfriend doesn't have a clue.

  • SECRET
    17 years ago

    WELL GURL if ur dat guy hav cheated you..[wait i can't say this to you yet!]

    so tel me how much do u luv your BF first?
    than we'll decide..

    [secret]

  • StJimmy
    17 years ago

    well my current boyfriend I don't love him!! me and my ex are going to get married and I know he's the only one that I want to spend the rest of my life with. we are always happy when its just us!

  • TheWorldFellNUWerentThere
    17 years ago

    Then this is your chance to tell your current boyfriend that you can't keep dating him when you don't love him. Tell him that your sorry but your still in love with your ex. And then speak with your friends and tell them that not everything is going to be exactly the way they want it and that your in love with your ex and they're really not 'real' friends if they cannot accept that unless he did a REALLY bad thing to them. Then they have every right to be mad at him.

  • StJimmy
    17 years ago

    I told my boyfriend and now I'm happy to say I am single. now I need help with the ex. how do we fix our problems? I know he'll still be there when I'm 20 but why wait? I guess the really question is has anyone ever been cheated on and gave the person a second chance and had it work out?