my friend died yesterday i seen the whole thing please help!!

i need help really bad i seen my friend die in a car accident yesterday night i seen it all i was driving behind him once the ambo came he was alredy dead i cant his his face or the accident out of my mind will this ever go away please help and is it my fault he died as i froze when i seen it happen?

Of course it's not your fault, hun. You did nothing to cause the accident. If you need to talk you can email me at conniegirl2004@hotmail.com I'm really sorry *big hugs*

youuuu can't prevent what you can't predict. this may always be on your mind but gradually you -will- get used to it, as long as you don't let it hang over your head like it was your fault or get in the way of your life.
A lot of people have to deal with death, being there when it happens and in the end there was nothing you could do so don't beat yourself up about it and realise heaven is better than earth.
x

aww so touching..and may your that frend be in peace now..in *HeAvEn*

-such a graceful demon

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ya you can't blame you self!!--as ppls hav already told u!!..this thing happens and goes..and it takes time to let go..so..and it may be a NIGHTMARE for now..but you saw ur fren die with your own eyes--i think the god must be teaching yu a lesson or smth..god wanted this to happen..and there's no stopping on what happenned..

if you can't put it to ur back..than bring it to ur fron and deal with it!..but i think at lest 2% in 100%..you should feel happy..co'z at least you saw him befor he died..{sori if it sounds like rude}

_SeCrEt_

not being rude but you have really made me feel like sh&^! you dont know what im goign through and dont preech your god bullsh@# to me in other words its sounding like your saying i have done some thing wrong for this to happen, and just keep rubbing it in my face capsing NIGHTMARES you really should take a look at how your making people feel cause im going through the hardest time in MY life and you have made me feel like F@#$ING S@!%!
THANKS FOR YOU OPINION!!

don't be like that now.. SECRET was just trying to show some support.. but still.. my ex-girlfriend died not too long ago.. i still had feelings for her after we broke up, but she moved away and i never got to mend things with her.. i found out through a common friend that she'd died.. sad, i couldn't fix things completely.. but back to the subject.. you have no fault. it just happened that you were there and saw it happen.. traumatic, yes.. and you have my support.. talk to me if you ever feel like you need someone.. even if i am a stranger.

First, don't get mad at Secret. If you don't believe in the God stuff then skip over that section. What they said really was nice. Just take a deep breath and don't take this out on people that are trying to help...like you asked for...

Also, my brother died a little over a year ago in his room. It was hard to go down there and see him...I still think about when I saw him down there, then in the hospital with tubes and stuff in him, and then think about seeing him in the casket. He was my everything. My world...it's hard. And it will be hard. It's still fresh in your mind. It JUST happened. It will be ok though. You just have to keep your friend in your heart and never let that go.

The first year will be ther hardest. Trust me. Everything for the first time is going to be hard. You will cry a lot and the events will re-play in your head for awhile as well. It will start to fade and will be replaced with all the happy memories you have. Don't hold back though. Cry when you need to. Yell when you need to. Just watch who you are yelling at and why. Don't take it out on other people.

hey its good to cry i watch my bestfriend die 3years ago yes i was heart broken and i was so scared i just froze she too died in a car accident but she had just dropped me off at my house i went to wave goodbye as her mum turned the corner and the was a car coming the other way i blame m y self for everything tht happened today i also had to put my dog molly down today im so up set but if you need to talk to me im here for you and tht is for anyone tht reads this post

its never your fault in a situation like that. it probably wont get easier...you'll probably just adapt to how things are, you'll never truly be over it and you will never forget either. crying is always a good thing its a way to show how your feeling its a release of your emotions, bottling things up is a bad thing so dont try it. i'm sorry that you're going through this i truly am, if u need an extra person to talk to i'm always around to listen.