I have two problems I seriously need help with.

Read it please.

4:10 p.m.

Me - Umm....Something tells me that you don't love me anymore.
My BF - That's stupid.
Me - Why?
My BF - You know I still do.
Me - Well, how am I supposed to know if you don't tell me?
My BF - Whatever, Dana. I'll call you back later.
Me - Ok.
My BF - Bye.
Me - Bye.

I hung up the phone, threw it across the room, and started crying.

5:42 p.m.

My BF - Ask your mom if I can come over.
Me - Ok.

I walked into the living room and asked my mom if he can come over. I end up getting grounded for begging her so much.

My BF - I'll call you back. My cousin's calling me.
Me - Bye.
My BF - Bye.

6:03 p.m.

My BF - I can't come over. I don't want to. It's getting too late.
Me - Ok.
My BF - Well, I'm gonna go. Bye.
Me - Bye.
My BF - Bye.

I hung up the phone and started crying.

These are 3 conversations I had with my boyfriend the other day. I'm getting the feeling that he really doesn't love me anymore.

What do you think?

Ok. Onto problem number two.....

I wrote a Blog on MySpace about my best friend in the whole wide world telling him how I love him and have since August 19, 2005. The only reason I remember that is because it was the first day of my 8th grade year.

Me - Did you read that thing I wrote about you on MySpace because your mom said you did?
The Best Friend - Why?
Me - Wondering.
The Best Friend - Well, would it be bad if I did?
Me - No.
The Best Friend - Well, I did.
Me - That's how I really feel, you know?
The Best Friend - Oh.

We stopped talking that night.

A couple days later......

The Best Friend - I want to tell you something, but I'm scared.
Me - What is it?
The Best Friend - Ok. I know you have a relationship right now and so do I, but maybe if they don't work out you and I could have a relationship together because I sorta kinda.....

We talked a bit more and then got off the phone. The other night, he came to my house and we had so much fun. He says he loves coming to my house and that he always has so much fun when he does.

I don't know whether to break up with my boyfriend and wait for my best friend, or if I should stay with my boyfriend and try to get over my best friend.

What do you think I should do?

If you really think that he doesn't love you then break up with him before you seriously get hurt. Try it out with your best friend AFTER you break up with your boyfriend. And if he keeps calling you back he might be cheating on you, thats what Chris did to me a while back. Sorry but I wanted to tell you what I felt.

And if you do decide to break up with your boyfriend and try it out with your best friend you might ruin the relationship that you have with your best friend.

Who makes you happier?
Who can you be more of yourself around?
Who makes you feel better about yourself?
What does your heart tell you?

These are important questions to ask yourself, and only you can answer them correctly. So really it's up to you; we don't know you personally or these two guys, but you do. I know it's not an easy decision, so I hope that you end up with the one that most deserves you :)

"he came to my house and we had so much fun. He says he loves coming to my house and that he always has so much fun when he does.

that's all he said?--did you guys kissed wen he had to go--or ani romantic thing happenned?
co'z wen u wrote this--what he said--it sounded what a friend would say to afrend..and i'm don't no should you break up wid him or not--co'z it's ur choice--ur future...

y don't you hav a long...talk with him about how you feeling now..? and why--?

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Leave your boyfriend and wait for your best friend

I had that chance but i just stayed with my boyfriend who ended up hurting me because he "stopped" loving me. I gave up a chance with the guy i really loved, my best friend, for a guy who just ended up leaving me and making me regret my decision. My best friend now has a girlfriend and me and him aren't as close because i picked a complete loser over him.

You obviously don't completely trust your boyfriend but you said you love your best friend and have loved him for a long time. Go for it.

Don't worry about what will happen if you go out with your best friend and then you end up breaking up. Take a chance or you'll always think "what if.."

Yea everyone has a point you really shouldnt do that to your boyfriend it aint right and as for your bf he shouldnt do that to his girlfriend and if your wondering if your man doesnt love you then stop cuz you jus cant stop loving someone out of no where maybe he jus feels stupid cuz of the way poeple are talking about you and your best friend, you should make sure he knows that your the one he wants and there is nobody else that you would rather be with and also let your best friend know that it aint right! I mean im not saying you cant hang out just make sure you Boyfriend has equal amount of spending time with you not less then your best friend!

Basically, do what you think is right.

But I personally think you should brake up with your boyfriend and go out with your best friend. I mean, you KNOW that your best friend loves you.