Confused

  • Kasie
    17 years ago

    Well I'm currently dating someone who is out of state at the moment. We are like 500 miles apart. I mean we still talk everyday and everything but it's hard. I was talking to one of my friends which is my ex boyfriend and he wants to get back with me. We broke up over 2 months ago, and I still care about him a lot. I love him with all of my heart even though I'm with someone else. I never got over him before I moved on. What should I do? I really care about the guy I'm with now, but he is out of state, and I don't want to hurt him. He doesn't know but every now and then I cry myself to sleep because I still love my ex. I've told him one time before that I still love my ex, but it hurt him so bad he started crying, and it hurt me because I hurt him. I really want to be with him, because he seems to be what's best for me, and my dad really likes him, and thats a big plus for me. My dad doesn't really like my ex but I seem to be a lot happier with him. Before me and my ex broke up we dated for a little over a year. Me and my current haven't even been dating but a little over 2 months. I'm not really sure what to do. My current is trustworthy, bossy, and a bit on the jealous side. He doesn't even let me hug my guy friends. But he's so sweet. He's already talking about getting married and I'm not ready just yet. Then theres my ex. He is trustworthy, patient, and understanding, he isn't really bossy.

    I can't hardly listen to the music I use to enjoy anymore without starting to cry. Please what should I do?!? I care about both of them, but I don't want anyone to get hurt. I know there is no way out of it without pain and heartbreak. I want to stay with my current, but then again I really love my ex.

    Oh and I didn't say I loved my current, I just like him a lot.

    Please any advice would be great.
    Thank you for your time.

    Kasie

  • limp
    17 years ago

    "Oh and I didn't say I loved my current, I just like him a lot."

    SAYS IT ALL my sweets.
    break up with your current, and go back out with your ex.
    For starters, he's offering, so it's not going to be that hard to get him back.
    all you're doing staying with your current boyfriend is gradually hurting him because you -don't- love him you only -like- him.
    Who you date, unless they are -really- bad for you shouldn't be decided by your DAD. He's not the one spending the rest of his life with this boy so why should it matter to him.
    KAYYYYY? x