Big Question 4 everyone

What do you do when you don't fit in?
you feel lonely,like an outcast?
when life throws you lemons but you don't like lemonade?
when all your friends are your enemies?
and all they do is talk behind your back?

how many of you feel like this and what would YOU do?

i feel like this. i avoid the world.. i'm secluded. i just observe.. and i write my pain.. don't do what i do though.. i REALLY don't advise it..

thank you, it's nice to know i'm not alone. and if you snapped out of it i can too. cheers x

I just can't say anything because this is how i feel and what is done to me nowadays
i got speechless after reading that
I'm in the same high skool for 3 years
if you ask i'm well-known to everyone and everyone have a friend group but i don't include in any..
My was-friends-to-be are always talking about me from my back and it's driving me real crazy
Everytime i feel so lonely especially at the mid day break
I really try to behave so good to everyone but i can't really get what i give from anybody
I cry everyday and i tell myself that i have just 3 moths left to the summer holiday
And sometimes i think to escape my daily life and go live with my sweetie or just kill msyelf to run away from those kind of nasty people
I trust in God and i'm sure that girls have their punishment had from God not from me
Please God,please

What goes around,comes around. I think we may have all been guilty of this at times. There are people I don't like to be around and some I do.
Keep your friends close and your enemies closer!

I feel like that a lot, i did this morning but i just run to Marcus and get him to hold me tight until i feel more at ease.
Sometimes a hug is all you need to keep going.
So hug someone today =)

i have friends but inside I'm an outcast mainly cause I think more on a worldly basis, I concern myself with worldly issue, and I think like a poet, too deep for most people. How I deal with it? I ignore it, I like myself and I appreciate my differences and see them as talents.
At times I'm lonely by choice.

yup..im feelin like this now..my friend turned her back plus my ex!! *bf at the time* they both did it at the same time....now im a outcast...i feel so alone so i wat i do is just read and write...they r sorta lik my true friends now....

I felt like that during high school, and though it really hurt me, I shoved it back into their faces and made it as though I wanted to be alone and eventually I preferred my own company to theirs. I was always a bit different (I've been wearing only black since about 10 and went really Goth about 14) and at first they snubbed it, I just wore thicker make up to annoy them. And then when the whole emo trend went through suddenly I was great. I told them where to shove it. Just be strong, hun. Don't let them see that they are hurting you. Once you leave school people get alot nicer and true friends will appear. *hugs* Stay Strong!

When I don't fit it.
I usually try to.
I buy the clothes they wear
I find friends that look like them.
I act like them.
Isn't that sad?

I don't want to fit in, to be like every one else.
they bore me, and frankly i dont give a f*** what any one thinks.
I like people who are different and interesting- that dont try to be cool or blend in with the crowd.

Individuality is much more valuable than fitting in; comformity. Be yourself. Be exactly who you want to be, and friends will find you. Treat others how you wish to be treated. If your friends bad mouth you, and you know this, confront them. If you have a friend who gossips to you about others, you can be sure she gossips to others about you. A gossip is no true friend. Be patient, with time, the pieces will fall together.

I feel the same way, even though I have friends, I feel that they are just so called. I don't like the way I'm treated, I treat them in such a kind way. When they hurt me or do anything that bothers me all I do is hold the pain, and when I'm full and can't hold anymore, I cry at night. I don't tell them that they hurt me, I'm really shy, quiet and sensitive. I don't no how 2 fight for my rights. So in the end they're just people I hang out with. I feel that they talk about me behind my back but I still hold everything inside. Holding everything in has caused me to become something I never thought I'd become... a cutter.

Sometimes standing out is wat makes u unique and special in ur own way. Sometimes being alone can hurt a bit, but being around a crowd that aren't real friends will hurt more. Make sure ur around the right people, people who don't put u down, people who encourage u to do and be better. Wishing u get throught this very soon and stay strong. If u need someone to talk to u can send me a private message and I will reply as soon as possible. I have aim, msn, and yahoo and I'm almost alwayz online.
Your friend,
~*~Diana~*~

I've been here and done somthing about it. I moved to a new school in 6th grade. And if anyone has ever done this you'll know its one of the hardest changes ever. I lost popularity (moved from small town so everyone knew everyone, I don't say popularity in a steriotypical way but rather that everyone loved everyone), I lost all my child hood friends, and loved ones. I moved to a town full of drugs, shootings, and no one liked any outsiders. What did I do? I got the attitude that I didn't care what people thought about me and that no matter what I'd always have my own back. I began working out and doing more for myself. My first friends came from when I joined the track team and kept up with it, If you want to gain friends or push yourself out into the world, I recommend joining some sort of school sports teams, an organization of sorts, or a public group that will just get you out there and noticed =)

i feel like this a lot of the time during school, and personally, i hate it... it gets really old really fast.
as for friends being my ememies... i hate that too, with a passion. it suck because i have no one to talk to when i cant't talk to them. last year in 8th grade, my (ex) best friend nikki went ahead and told everyone i was going to grow up to be a crackwhore, and then she "accidentally" told everyone, including my boyfriend at the time, that i liked like 4other people... which i didn't!!! god, i hate her so much...
i haven't talk to her since 8th grade ended...
wow, it felt good to get tht out...

i just cry myself to sllep

not that this will help much, but I write dark, deep poetry and cut my wrists with suicide in mind. sorry, dont try any of that. umm, i would say that u should try hanging out with the so called "nerds" because they are really nice and are most likely going to be ur true friends. i think, i dont know cuz i dont hang out with them. and also dont be embarrased to hang out with them because later in life, the people that teased u for it wont remember u and u wont remember them.

I too feel the same. my poetry is my escape. I also cry myself to sleep and pray that either the world would be changed by the time I wake up or that I would die (which ever is easier)...

Sorry, but i have never been in this situation

I do feel the same as you. If you read some of my other posts, you'll see that I am definitely like you in a lot of ways. Well.. this isn't exactly a good thing but I usually try to avoid my problems. Don't be like that though, you should talk to somebody you trust.. get those feelings out, let somebody who you care about and who cares about you know about your problems. After all.... one person on a island alone is very lonely.

~Loveless Nights~

Well i get this feeling alot.
i turn to the bible.

I feel like this a bunch.....
but, if life gives you lemons, squirt the lemon juice into the eyes of your enemies.
^strong wisdom

i just don't let them stomp on me, you have to atleast try to survive, i hope your able to do that.
gabriella

I just don't care if it would happen I'd find some way to just release what I have.

If i felt like that i would look for a bright side. if there is no bright side nothing to look forward to, i would try to find a solution. don't do what i ALMOST did last year. i'm going through a lot right now. but i'm trying to hold on. just try to hold on. i'm here if you want to talk.

I feel like this especially since I found my best friends lying so they don't have to hang out with me, my friends all have been talking behind my back and.....idk...my parents constantly fight, and my dad, we just found out has blood cancer....

I used to feel like you do...and that led me to a very dark place. but i didn't want to spend my life like that...i think its a waste of my life so i made it better.

I had that problem when I was in elementry school I was the outcast because I was fat. How did I change it? I think I gradualy decided that I wasnt going to put up with the people who gossiped about me or put me down or whatever. I think that there is always someone who will always be your friend you just have to search for him/her even if they are not like your old friends. I toughend up and wouldnt allow it to bug me they arent worth it ya know? theres always something better. no one needs that kind of crap.

I use to feel the same way, because of my abuse coming up as a child. And for many years I still felt that way, if you are feeling like you don't belong with the people you have been hanging with.Then try to find new friends to hang out with, I went through my whole life feeling like you do. Till I found this site, and now I can let it all out. And I have found that I am helping others open up too, it's a lonely world and everyone needs a friend. So make some changes in your life, and make new friends. Promise you , you will feel better about yourself and so will your new friends.

I don't know about the rest of you, but I really like living I know I don't have ever long ,but I'm gonna try as hard as I can, to enjoy what little time I do have. friends are good to have. But friends are like love, you have love and you have true love. I don't need to tell you the difference you find the one that you are the happiest with and stick with, true friends try will help you and they really understand.

I know i neva gonan fit in most ppl at mii skool all dey do id talk bout ppl but as long they dont go smiling in my face actin dey madd coo wit be one day n talkin bout me the nex they str8

Ew when. Don't change yourself for people. You lose the best things about you wehn you do this. Just make your own group. People will follow sooner or later and see that your a cool person.

Nothing new from me here..

im always like this..

i write to ease some pain...
killing some time with sports..

thats how i dealt with it...

theres nothing wrong with being alone... its yourself...

I don't know I have the same problem myself.

Thankfully I don't have any of the problems at the top I know pretty much everyone and if there is a problem than they can waste their own time talking about it.

All i can say is pray, it will help you a lot.. believe me.!! just be strong and dont think that your alone,.;P

^Agreed, God will always be there for you and don't forget it. He loves you with all his heart and will always listen to your problems and prayers.

What do you do when you don't fit in? find somewhere else to fit in, like this site
you feel lonely,like an outcast? get annoyed and stuff
when life throws you lemons but you don't like lemonade? put them down your top. BOOBIES yay
when all your friends are your enemies? feel sorry for myself, get angry at them
and all they do is talk behind your back? get new friends

how many of you feel like this and what would YOU do?
as above

Omgg..i so know what you mean, like seroiuslly.
i feel like that sometimes, its pretty tough, espesially when you are going through a lot, and theres nobody there.

but anyway...i think you should talk to your friends, or the people who talk behind your back, and honestly tell them how you feel. hopefully they will understand.