Is it okay to feel this bad????

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    My best friend and her boyfriend of two years broke up in... november, I think. It's march now, and she's still getting over it. They were very close in so many ways - great friends before there were any romantic feelings between them, and still trying to be friends after. I'm sorry to say this, but it might take a long time. There is improvement, however. My friend can go quite a few days without crying, now, and she still talks to him often, and she keeps moving to better and better places in the whole thing. So what I'd say to you is - it may take time, but that's just how it is. You were close to this guy, and that bond doesn't dissolve overnight. You have to give yourself time to move on, while also doing what's in your power to make that happen. Good luck, I hope things get better