(*( Confused )*)

Okay.

I'm having a little bit of a problem. These two guys REALLY like me. One is Wesley and the other is Mikey. Wesley is a setteled down guy and he 'wants' to talk to me unlike Mikey, he's never answering anything I ask, even if I say hi he won't answer.

Well Mikey emailed Wesley telling Wesley to stop talking to me in any shape or form because Mikey supposedly[sp?] had me first and 'loved me to death.' How in the world do you love someone so much not even knowing what the person is and only knowing them for an hour? I don't get it. I told Mikey I can't be with someone that doesn't want to talk and then IMs me back asking me why I'm not answring back.

Wesley on the other hand is really setteled down and my grandma is beginning to like him very well. He's countryness and (my grandma likes those country boys lol jk) and he calls me. Like me he also believes that if someone is going to do an 'online relationship' and it lasts for more then a month or two that they should meet up just to know what the person is really in person. On the otherhand Mikey got mad because I told him I wanted to see someone one point in time if I'm going to see them. *My ex Jesse had come up and moved up here maybe a month before he died. And we were together for 4 months and it worked out well.* Mikey said that it doesnt matter and he 'loved me so much' he didnt need to meet me in person. ( I'm sorry but that sounds SO much like a "Oh dont get so close I'm going to leave you in the end" kind of line.)

I mean I know Mikey's gone through so much in his lifetime but I'm more turning towards Wesley becuase he shows that he cares and doesn't blame me for not talking back when I tried talking to him in the first place.

I'm getting confused myself too but I just need help.

&& Wesley knows now that I have a 'cam' on my yahoo and he wanted me to 'flash' him lastnight and I told him no and he accepted.

Can you please help.

From,
-Stuck In Confusion-

I mean I don't want to sound like a hopless person.

But I don't know what to do,

Britt,

Wesley does make me happy. But Mikey keeps getting in the way. I'm the only one that can keep Mikey calm when hes ticked off I was the only one that could calm down Mikey before he could try to find Wesley and kill him.

Wesley just tells me to wait a few days and then tell him that he's not my type. Thats what I'm thinking of doing.

Last time I did that Mikey was telling me that I just met Wesley and I want to go with him. Well Mikey doesnt know but I go with someone that gives me the better impression within the few hours I talk to them.

Who Mikey?

Ummm I have to agree with Britt, he does sound like a pysco... now, do you know these two people in person, becaue the way I interpreted it, these are both online relaionships. Also, it also sounds like Mikey's a complete a*shole, he doesn't treat you right, and Wesely does, not really a very hard choice. lol, yeah, just tell Mikey you don't like him like that.

i agree with ya girlies... Wesley all the way. Best of luck hun!

Ciao

Mikey has been telling people that I dont know nothin bout Wesley and he don't know nothing about me. Thats bull.

I think hes just a jealous freak. Sorry but im mad.

i agree with ya hun... cut your ties from Mikey
He's not worth it!!

Ciao

^^ agreed. 100% WESLEY!! Anyway, your probably right, he is just a jelous freak.. not to be mean either, but he's deftinely jelous!

My friend John told me he emailed Wesley and omg I was shocked. Wesley told John that he loved and cared for me and my family and no one or nothing is going to come between us. He called me again tonight. I JUST FALL IN LOVE AGAIN WITH HIM ALL OVER WHEN I HEAR HIS VOICE!!! He told me he loved me [:. I'm SO happy.

Good for you!!! I'm happy for you!! YAY!! ^_^ Congrats!!

Thanks. I don't think I would ever been happy.

I FINALLY GOT MY COURAGE UP!

This is what im going to say to Mikey::

MIkey.. i cant keep doing this. I cant lead you on, i took along time to really think about it and my heart belongs to someoen else right now. I'm sorry ok? I'm telling you before I know it gets to far, I don't want to hurt you and I'm seriously crying right now but I cannot take it. It's ruining me. I can't be in two places at one time. I'm sorry Mikey.

Good enough?

Too late Britt.

Already said it. Now he's telling me that he'd hope that Wesley would rape me and that he's going to go kill himself.

Oh jeeze.. well, not that he has any hard feelings.. umm, wow.. well, I doubt he will seriously kill himself (I may be wrong, but I doubt it) I have a friend who is sort of in this situation, where the guy pulled the "if you don't go out w/ me, I'll kill myself card". But I really hope it works out for the best for you...

I don't know.
But I don't like Mikey.
Wesley seems nice.

Last night I signed out on Mikey. He's pretty mad but no one can make me choose. Unless it's a family problem and I have to do something or else the person would die but that can't happen. I'm falling in love with Wesley and Mikey is just mad because he knows that I won't choose him. So I'll ignore him because I'm not going to go through this sh_t. It's too immature for me.

Jeez I just sounded like an adult lol..