he has a girlfriend...

hey guys i need some help. well the first problem is i like my brothers friend..his friend who always flirts with me and calls me hot and stuff like that. the only thing is, i dont know if he's doing that only because i'm his friends sister, or because he actually likes me. i really like him and he puts his hands on my shoulders and says hi to me. the worst part is that he has a girlfriend...hes been going out with her for 2 years. also, the only time he says hi to me is in band, the only place where his girlfriend is never with him. and whenever he is with his girlfriend, he never talks to me. i dont understand and i'm really confused about what to do because i really like him. please help me!

thank you!
-sam

Hmm, that's tricky, honestly, I can never understand guys, they do such strange things that don't make sense.
Anways I am thinking either these things:
1. He's playing you
2. He wants to make you jealous
3. He's an ass.

Sorry I can't be more help, actually, sorry I wasn't a help at all!

haha thanks, yeah i doubt hes trying to make me jealous because they've been going out for 2 years and i just met him this year. i think she means too much to him. thats why i'm confused about how he acts around me! lol

From a guys point of view, I think he is one of two things. Either he is just a friendly, flirty type guy(the flirty type can be very misleading, trust me I know), or he wants to fool around without his girlfriend knowing. Actually there is one other possibility, maybe his girlfriend is the jeoulous type, and that is why he doesn't talk to you with her around. Hope I helped...

Jason

I think I have to kinda agree with Jason, but then "Guys" are pretty tricky:) Cuz guys can show you they like you, but then for some stupid reason later on they hurt you:( and that sux:( I had some experiences;).. I don't know if I helped..

*!*Good Luck:)*!*