so I attempted to come out to my mom today...

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    and it didn't really work out haha to be honest. Damn, sometimes I f***in hate the Catholic church (only for imposing its hating beliefs on my mother). I'm considering taking back what I said and telling her it's all in my head but I'm so close to my mom I feel stupid for perpetuating a lie. She thinks I'm choosing to be bisexual. Damn, I wish.

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    thanks a lot you guys. miracle of miracles, I think things are actually going to be okay. my mother just apologized for being so judgmental, its just extremely hard for her. i feel sort of guilty for putting her through something so difficult to handle, but I think its going to be okay. *sigh of relief*

  • Tony E
    17 years ago

    "Religion is a made up idea that is forced upon us at a young age". To say that billions of people on this earth are worshiping nothing simply because you aren't religious is extremely opinionated. I'm not a religious person and consider myself agnostic, but I would never come out and insult people for believing what they wish to.

    On to the more important topic, I'm glad your mom is coming around and realizing that you are who you are. You're her daughter and she will always love you more than anything in this world.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    She's probably just shocked, and I'm sure she'll come around eventually! I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out for you!

  • .K.i.T.t.Y.
    17 years ago

    It was shock. Some people think --ohh, they'll never be like that. So when it is said, they are like taken back..but when they love you they'll support you in the end, no matter what! I'm glad your mom appologized. best of wishes.

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Well, maybe your mom is uncomfortable with your romantic/sexual preferences in general...I know my mom would be. We avoid talking about that stuff..but then again, I'm straight so maybe it is a wee bit different. But hey, worst part is over, you came out to your mama, and if she don't likie, she don't have to...she will love you anyway. And I agree...F ALL RELIGION!! It is all interesting crap, but crap nonetheless. Sorry all you religious fanatics.

    Represent who you are! Don't be ashamed! That is the key.