i need help please.guys do u act like this????PLZZZZZ

  • callmecrazy
    17 years ago

    ok so i was friends with this boy, we got along so good, he asked me to a dance, after the dance we went to his house , this was maybe a week or two after meeting him . anywayz. we go to his house to watch a movie. ... we both knew we liked eachother cuz we told on another. so that that we ended up making out. and since then we been friends with benifits . now i belive 2 months have gone by... and on V DAY this ended, our whole sorta dating thing that no one but us new cuz we didnt want people in our bussines for a few reasons...

    he tells me this girl he s liked since summer told him she liked him... and so it ended . and we stayed frineds.. but now it s changed so much its not even funny. we never hang out . by the way they went out for like 5 days and broke up hehe.. the first day he went out with her . me and him made out.. anywayz..

    sorry if im confusing you.. but me and him became like best friends and now i feel like he s trying to avoid me . he never wants to hang out. never really talks to me anymore. and it really hurts because i began to have really strong feelings for him .. im just so sad...:(
    i think him and this same girl are dating now agian but its secret . no one allowed to know becuase of her sister. and stupid stuff like tht...
    when will things be ok with me and him??
    i really want my friend back.. he said he just wants to be friends but he dosnt act like it..:(

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    17 years ago

    the whole concept of "friends with benefits" is the worst idea ever. I believe that's what ruined your friendship and anything you had or could have had.
    Sex and even kissing is not something casual. It's an expression of love and that's how it should stay. When you toy with them, you toy with your own emotions and that would be how you're in the predicament you're in now.
    My best advice now would be- learn from your mistakes and move on.

  • callmecrazy
    17 years ago

    yea it sucks. we didnt go as far as having sex think god.. but in the begining we both did like eachother .. but i just started likeing him and i think what he felt sorta faded away. and now he s trying to focuse on this other gurl..
    GRR MEN SUCK