Standards

not sure i can give you five and im not going to even try...but heres a few...compassion, intelligence, honesty

^^I agree with Jason.

Compassion
Intelligence
Honesty
Personality
Sense of humor
Loyalty
Genarous
Easy-going
Understanding

^^just to name a few...I mean there are so many

^^um I think that defeats the purpose of this question abby.

Quoted from the question, "...no matter how hot you think he or she is?"

Faith

Sorry Abby, maybe you should of elaborated a little more than just Beauty....Beauty of ____

As you said above....

Beauty refering to Love.

I have to agree with joe in this...beauty is just too general to completely describe what you may or may not have intended. Beauty often refers to physical anymore...and by default that seems to be how it is taken...it would not hurt to expand a little now would it...no harm would be done...and it would better convey your feelings on the subject anyway

Looks are irrelevant next to love on a persons self...their personality. And yes you probably do have your own take on beauty...I only ask that for those of us that dont know you and dont know your take that you explain it to us...as i said before...there would be no harm done

Caring
Loving
Trust
Respectful of my morals(of which I have many, lol)
Intelligence

But mainly, I just want them to accept me for my very weird self, with no questions asked.

Jason - "Looks are irrelevant"? What dream world are you living in? I'm sorry, but in order to be with someone (as in more than just friends with them) you HAVE to be physically attracted to them. Looks might not be the most important thing in a relationship, in fact I doubt they are in most good relationships, but needless to say they definitely aren't irrelevant.

I like honesty
Loyalty
Humor
Pride
Intelligence

to be honest the best thing about someone is when everytime ur with them u feel happy or even if u walk into the room and the say hey in a sweet way and i dont me hey baby or hey sweetie i mean acctually saying to a girl hey beautiful or saing to a guy hey handsome

Standards? I'm going to take this in a different direction and shoot for standards in a relationship, associated with personality characteristics.

Honesty
Trust
Loyalty
Understanding
Passion

Darn, I wanted to do more than 5! But I will stick to the code...the code...