How to fall in love

I want to fall in love.
But I just seem to push everybody away.
It's like, nobody's good enough for me.
But even if they are,
I make up some lame excuse?
What can I do?
How do I fall in love with someone
If I don't trust anybody?

u cant be told how to fall inlove it just happens and no matter what when you feel it you know its right and you are supossed to be witht tht person

You can't just fall in love..there are no how to's...if you don't understand this, I can't even begin to fathom how you could possibly be ready to love someone in the manner of which we refer. Falling in love comes naturally, it is not forced, it is often unexpected and definitely uncontrollable. That's even more far-fetched than asking, "How do I become depressed?" You either are, or you aren't. Anyway, I will try to be civil. When you are ready, and you find a right person...I say 'a' because I feel that there is no ONE right person for anyone...you will fall in love. Be patient. Love will find you if you're not a hermit living completely unassociated with humanity.

well here goes my falling in love story. i am not a christian or anything, but one nite i got really messed up, (like usual) and then i prayed with all my mite that god would kill me and just take me away. the next day i met this amazing guy and i have never been depressed, suicidal, or cut since then. he is amazing. he came from nowhere. you can't make yourself fall in love. love will find you when you need it the most. just be patient, don't go looking for it or you won't find it.

You need to lower your expectations, for a start (making up excuses for the rest of your life will get you NOWEHERE). I don't know how to explain this, really. You can't make yourself 'fall in love', yiknow. It's just something that happens when you least expect it. I didn't expect to feel the way I did then and still do when I first met the guy- but it happens in time.
To the girl above, I agree with you. Some guys just come from nowhere and really, just even at the thought of them, things seem to work far better than usual.

I don't know if that made sense. And i'm not going to spell-check. So, yeah.

Good luck girl. Just try being a little more welcoming, it always helps :)

Agree^^ when you just don't give a fcuk about love or focus on other things,it comes to you accidentally at the real wrong time if it's real love...
It came to me that way:)

If you are looking for love, you are wasting your time. You dont look for love, it finds you when the right person comes along. You can't learn how to fall in love. Thats like, impossible. Wait for the right person to come along and when they do, you will know. You will fall in love. trust me. You may even know him.

There is no how to fall in love...It comes naturally...when you meet the person the feeling is just there for it will grow to tht...but maybe as above ^^ but don't go looking for love..cuz you won't find anything

you cant plan fallin in love, it just happens...if you want it stop lookin fa it and let if find you

Open up to people. Maybe you should get to know them well first, and then maybe it might be easier for you to open up to them and maybe even fall in love with them. You'll start to build trust over time. Maybe try to think before you say no to someone, and try it out. idk, just my opinions.

you really need to open up! I know that's already been said but it's very true. you can't love if you can't trust.

Falling in love is a natural thing. I don't think I could put it better than some of the people here have already done. I know that the idea is tempting. To fall in love and to be genuinely happy but something that wonderful is worth waiting for but you should be forewarned that sometimes with love can also come unspoken sadness. But as the saying goes " It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all".

I would've never loved at all!!

Well, then I guess it depends on each person's perspective.

ye. dnt force to fall in love wihtsome your self let love find you itself thts why it called fall in love.

ye 1 mE4n u keNt f0C et n Xp3ct 2 f4Ll n lUv Kuzz lyk d3N id 1Zn lu\/ n lYk i m1n lyC ye.

Word.

Love comes unexpectedly. I think when you try to fall in love, you really fall for what you think love is, the illusion of love, rather than the real thing. Does that make sense? lol