For the sake of curiosity

Hi! Call me Rhea,

I just get a kick out of hearing what people have to say to this.
Which way do you like a boy/girlfriend to be?

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of them self

or

Someone who needs you all the time, can't take care of them self's and that falls apart all the time?

I get the strangest answers to this type of thing and would love to see what you guys think on this.
***Rhea***

I wouldn't mind someone desperate and needy. Although mine is quite the opposite, we still need each other to love and to be loved.

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of themself

definitely.

Cool!
Most of the guys I know can't handle me and don't stay around long because they can't handle me being strong willed, able to take care of myself (most of the time) although I still love it when a guy takes care of me sometimes, and independent.
It doesn't seem to be what a lot of men want.

I happen to like my guys to be strong, protective and not afraid to stand up to me or anyone else that is hurting me, but still able to tell me how he feels and what he wants
***Rhea***

srong willed and able to take care of themselfs, i couldnt stand a needy ewww sorry i dont want to raise them! im not there mom

i would love to be with some one strong willed but not bossy over me like i am his kid. but my current is very dependent on me which i love being needed but it can be to much some times.

I know what you mean Abby. Strong willed, independent men are so much more sexy then weak willed guys that I can push around. Although when a strong macho guy has a weak moment it's so sweet when they let you know that they need you for them to lean on just as much you need them. =)
***Rhea***

I forgot to add that strong, independent and Tall that makes them twice as sexy (I hate that most of the guys I know anywhere near my age is like 3 or 4 inches shorter then me) lol =)
***Rhea***

Fifty fifty because my bf is mostly the first one and sometimes it annoys me because when we argue and end our conversation,It is me that apologises even he is guilty
All i can understand his love are sometimes his lovely words and his eyes(they say all)
But he really wonders and gets angry if i don't call him when i said him that i will,and he calls me just to say i love you even we have just talked 5 minutes ago
He is so sweet and my sweetheart *sighs happily*
I missed him...

I'm going to have to go with numbero uno. What's the point if there's no challenge? It's just boring otherwise.

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of them self! Heck yes.

I like someone who has strong opinions and stands up for their beliefs.
I cant stand guys who give in to everything you say
However, I dont like stubborn guys,
they need to submiss to me,
just put up a fight first
=DD

[PymgyPuff]

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of them self

I would most deffinatly have to say strong willed, independent and able to take care of themself. Only because if I wanted to be someones mother, id have my own kids. And if your older than...13 and you still act like you need someone ALLL the time, then that person needs some serious help! I like strong willed, its hott!

Great topic Rhea!..it made me think a little.!.

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of them self. I have had to look after every single one of my boyfriends (who were all older than me by a couple of years [some more than others]) and it really becomes annoying. yes it is nice to know that someone needs you and wants you around. but tol have to "babysit" them? HELL NO!!! I mean, i need my space too...

WOW O.O I didn't expect to get this many posts =)
Ok I have to say that I was just asked, and said yes, to become the guy I likes girlfriend last night *YES! My first bf* =) but he's not really the kind of guy I always saw myself really liking and dating =P
He's funny, smart, sweet *the guy hiked all the way up a hill with me and when we got to the top he surprised me by pulling out a blanket, wine glasses and a bottle of 7UP* and he thinks that I'm perfect =) But he's insurcure at times and ends up emailing me anywhere between 3 and 4 times a day *around going to school* and he drives me crazy because he's just as stubborn as I am and I'm used to doing everything myself =P But he's older then me, taller then me and he doesn't let me push him around =) I guess I found a guy that lives right in between the two =)

I want someone strong willed.
But will definitely not call me babe.
Who has a good head on his shoulders.
I've got a pretty strong personality.
I get pretty wild sometimes.
I want that person to calm me down.

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of themselves.

I'd hate to be with someone who couldnt do anything without me.. (not wanting to is a different story) but I like people who have a sence of themselves, I also like the fact of knowing that they aren't gonna like jump off a bridge if things dont work out.

Your very true Ashleigh =) The kind that would do that are very irritating and not the kind I want to date or maybe spend the rest of my life with with =P My boyfriend can stand on his own but he doesn't seem to like being alone really, I think he's just happier when he has someone to talk to, take care of and that will care about him =) He sends me little notes all the time just to say hi, that he misses me and that he's sending me hugs *but then we've only been dating a week on Monday*^.^ And he knows that I need someone to do that once in a while to remind me that I'm loved and not alone =) But weak willed guys bug me almost as much as mean or drunk guys *both of which I know* =P Strong willed guys that you can't push around *unless they want to be* are so much sexier if you ask me lol xD
***Rhea***

I get both types of guys but the needy guys always seem to do better with me cuz i just fall for them harder i gujess its weirdness cute question
Desi

Strong willed, independent and able to take care of them self..

I wouldnt be able to stand some1 that was so needy.. it would drive me fuckn nuts!!

Well if i had to choose your first one - strong willed ... but i think it needs to be a balance really or it's just not gonna work. You need someone that's there for you without smothering you and you don't want to have to pamper someone all the time. It takes away the sense of what you have been special. I would say that a partner should give you space and be there for you at the same, as should the other person. whoo. next question? lol.