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  • LONELY
    18 years ago

    ok ppl listen...i would really appreciate if you helped me here....my friend is going to kill herself and she set a date and everything...and im soooo scared i dont wanna lose her....and i dont know what to do....i try to talk to her and try to tell her that she shouldnt do that....and i would like you guys to tell me what things i should say to her that would make her stop...plz you guys im begging anyone who sees this....i really really need help....

  • LONELY
    18 years ago

    well she didnt tell me....i sort of found her suicide letter by mistake....i was looking through her papers and stuf.... i cryyyyyyyy

  • NuovoVesuvio
    18 years ago

    Psshh...

    you have to act MORE sad, upset, and angry than her - match her mood and actions, then slowly become more happy until you are both fine again. She will copy you.

    Do it in the right situation. When you two are alone in her bedroom is ideal. Not on msn or something.

    Go down to her level. Twin yourself with her. Say you'll make it through this together.

  • Beauty In The Breaking
    18 years ago

    When someone decides to kill themself it's normaly because they feel there is no other way out of whatever is happening in their life or because they feel they are a disappointment either to themselfs or to the ones they care about. She's hurting and doesn't see any other way out of her pain.
    For me I needed to have people show me that there was still hope and that this would pass. Show her that she's loved and like everyone else above has said, show her that if you can pull through something bad then she can also.
    Make sure that she knows that she's not alone in the world (but make sure that you don't make her feel pushed around) and that people love her and try to find a way to show her that things WILL get better