To the annoying girls (most people here)

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    I had to put annoying, because any other more suitable adjective would cause this thread to be deleted.

    I have no idea how so many of you are so, seriously, really, mentally challenged. A guy messes around with you, flirts with you, plays with you, generally doing everything OTHER than loving you consistently. Do you NOT GET that HE DOES NOT WANT YOU, and EVEN IF DID, IT WOULD STILL END IN TEARS.

    Here's something for you. 97% of teen relationships fail miserably. Why? Because you're stupid! You deserve to be hurt! Just because he looked at you, doesn't mean you have to spend the next two years in bed with him!

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    Next rant:

    You all go on about how boys are bad, boys treat you worse, boys are careless and callous, boys hurt you, etc etc. I agree. But when you're in a good relationship, with a good guy, what do you do?? You say, tell me you love me every day, hold me at the hips, hold me close, go to the other side of the world and back for me, but what the hell do you do??? All YOU have to do, is sit there and look cute, so CUT US SOME SLACK.

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    HooOLD MEH BACK!

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    Haha i could be those kind of girl cos i'm with my bf almost 2 years,but he wants to be with me,i give spaces to him and he always gets back at me,and i don't do alot annoying talking like where you were,blah blah

    i'm not a jealous girl,if he loves me he would get back at me everytime
    And i had so much mistakes to him but he forgave me. He is afraid to lose me and he proved me that he really loves me...That is how a guy should be...

    We two seperate have so different lives but our hearts beat together,there is something keeping us together....

    I don't talk alot about ohh this is our anniverasy he does it,he counts the months:)
    Oh my sweetie i missed you alot

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    ^Sounds to me like he does everything for you. What do you do for him!? Why is it always the guy who has to prove their love a million times, and chase you from one end of the earth to the other, while you pretend not to care?

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    You want men and women to be equal, yet you beat him up, and when he so much as touches you, he gets called a woman basher!

    YEAH!

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Lol. And the purpose of this thread was to, inform the reader that boys aren't the only ones to blame for a relationship ending in disaster?

    Well, do you feel accomplished? The only girls that are answering to this thread are trying to stick up for themselves or try and take your side. It's rather obvious that ''IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO'', both parties could be at fault.

    So, are you throwing off some heat? Or are you just trying to sound ''intelligent''? Because really, everyone knows when they are at fault, they just don't choose to accept it. Go figure. xo.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Britt, ever hear the expression ''Blinded by love''. Although it may not be TRUE love, it's a form of such.

    Feelings are amazing, no?

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    Yes, this thread is supposed to be a mindless rant, of the things I am fed up about. I log in here every day to see the same things. Actually, it's mainly the first post, the rest is general ranting and steam venting. Agree, disagree, or leave, but don't play ad hominem. It's not cool.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    ... LMAO. I wasn't talking about you, a little too guilty?

    I was referring to what you said.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Nuovo, thought so. :]

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Britt, go get some sleep then? Might do wonders, never know till you try. xo.

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    When we give spaces we're guilty
    When we dreamin about his everything we're guilty too
    Haha I think he just tries to get himself relaxed with blaming us:)

    And the answer is that to your question
    I neverminded my family&relatives&friends thoughts and i stood up for him everytime
    I can end up my daily life for him
    And if i'm not with him,why would i live?he made me start to live and hold on
    And i live this life just for him
    Is this enough?

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    P.S. Never agree with me, it's not safe.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Mine does. The restaurant I work at doesn't get any buisness. Lmao. Not at that time of the day, anyway.

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    'Haha I think he just tries to get himself relaxed with blaming us:)'

    Yeah you're right!
    All you girls!

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Nuovo, why isn't it safe to agree with you? Do you change your mind about things constantly? Are you not truthful on your word?

    That's what it seems like now.

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    'And the answer is that to your question
    I neverminded my family&relatives&friends thoughts and i stood up for him everytime
    I can end up my daily life for him
    And if i'm not with him,why would i live?he made me start to live and hold on
    And i live this life just for him
    Is this enough?'

    I know your relationship sounds good, and I don't doubt it, but have you realized all you have said you do for him is actually about YOU?

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    Jennifer, go learn what ad hominem means then heed my previous statement thank you.

  • NuovoVesuvio
    17 years ago

    Cool, we are all posting at the same time. This is narly.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    From what I know of Ad hominem its something like ''argument against the man''. Writers who commit this fallacy sidestep the real issue and instead try to slur the character of their opponent.

    SO. if you refer to that. Then.. xo.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Matthew, I believe that's your name. What I find funny is that you base this whole thing on how much girls don't appreciate what they have and how they are always ''getting played'' because of their own stupidity. But why haven't you touched the same topic for boys?

    AS I SAID EARLIER. It takes two to tango.'

    and three to make love. no i'm playing.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    Do you feel better now that you've ranted?? lol, always makes me feel better! lol

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    LMAO. Not all boys want sex though. We should stop categorizing.

  • ShootingStar179
    17 years ago

    So I saw this thread and HAD to comment.

    Now original poster, try not to be so general in saying "All girls are stupid" Or whatever you said. When I read that, I was personally offended. Believe it or not, there are girls (such as myself) that are not like your description. Yet, I do agree that girls are degrading themselves these days and yes, some at this site do blame it on the boys. Don't be so aggressive with your argument and maybe the slower of P+Q will get the picture also.

    Many will see your title and be pulled in and see your rude words and not think a thing of it.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Um.. Didn't I type .. to stop categorizing?

    SOMEpeoplethesedays! lmao.

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    Britt..

    Next rant:

    You all go on about how boys are bad, boys treat you worse, boys are careless and callous, boys hurt you, etc etc. I agree. But when you're in a good relationship, with a good guy, what do you do?? You say, tell me you love me every day, hold me at the hips, hold me close, go to the other side of the world and back for me, but what the hell do you do??? All YOU have to do, is sit there and look cute, so CUT US SOME SLACK.

    That was one of Matthew's posts. SO. She is kinda of right. He did say ALL.

  • Fluffy
    17 years ago

    To all of Matt's posts: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

    That was WAY too much. Gosh. Well, seeing as in you said it's dangerous agreeing with you, I'll say you've made valid points throughout.

    It's ridiculous how we frequently get girls here with boyfriend troubles (which in some respect is understandable, considering this is a love forum); though it get's so silly after the point you made earlier about girls wanting everything and they themselves mess things up eventually (you know, the 'OMG DIS GUY I LIKE TOUCHED MA ASS. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND BUT I DON'T CARE!' issues).

    And to the girl above. I HIGHLY doubt that. AHEM, Matt. Lol.

  • ShootingStar179
    17 years ago

    I'm just saying that it's not cool to say that all girls screw everything up. Because it isn't true. There are really dumb girls but there are also real gross guys too. So don't blame girls for everything and realize guys are also to blame.

    That's all I'm saying. I'm not trying to start any debate, just tring to get you to see the other side.

  • limp
    17 years ago

    i don't actually mind, probably because i am a girl, that if i were to get in a relationship i would be completely flattered left right and centre in him bending over backwards to do things for me. BUT the thing that pisses me off is the way that these girls relentlessly start reused old threads "I tried to call him and he didn't call me back DOES HE EVEN LOVE ME ANYMORE?!?!?!" or "I met him through my best mate and we kinda like each other so should I ask him out?" well sdhsjgdhrgjm YES?!?!?
    should be freaking practical. Like common sense.

    oh and.
    HEY Matt.
    How's Helen?!?11/1/1.

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Nuevo, shut up. IF a guy dates a girl who does not treat him fairly, it is his OWN DARN FAULT! You don't need to flip out about it. All relationships should be fair, all should be equal..the underdog in any relationship is as much as fault as the topdog. Sheesh. I think you have some pent up anger towards the female gender.

  • limp
    17 years ago

    ABBY.
    that was me.

  • Miss Pipp
    17 years ago

    "You want men and women to be equal, yet you beat him up, and when he so much as touches you, he gets called a woman basher!"
    THANKYOU for saying that. If I hit a guy I EXPECT him to hit me back.
    This post is true, most girls expect too much from guys and never give anything in return. A guy will think about a woman, I love this person, She is the ONLY one. I can't live without her I need her. Nothing else matters, I have no reason to live if I'm not with her. A woman will think that about shoes. (Dylan Moran said that if you're interested) I'm not saying I'm not guilty of expecting too much, Infact I have ruined several relationships because of it... We should be more considerate, girls!

    xXx

  • limp
    17 years ago

    LOL ABBY.
    Let's stop making the moderators have a tough job and you can head over to my about to be new sexy thread in the Friendship forum. OH YEAH.
    We can discuss it there.

    ohh bby.

  • Tricky Daze
    17 years ago

    The hell yeah for your question Nuovo
    And that's not only me having a good relationship like mine
    And i believe that nobody is completely innocent with a blaming or guilt,you know what i mean?

  • Forever
    17 years ago

    I think the idea that only girls have relation problems is dumb. Boys hav just as many if not more.

  • Dan
    17 years ago

    THANK you lol finally .. geez im a good guy my last relationship was off and on for 8 months and everytime my ex broke it off.. and she cheated on me too it hurts still... but yea back to the topic wait for a good guy who loves you and tell him you love him back and tats it

  • mistressxsork
    17 years ago

    This thread has been ruined..

  • Chrissie
    17 years ago

    I just came out of an awesome relationship, but even though it was awesome, it has ended in about a trillion tears. But it was all worth it. HEHE.