ok guys this ones tough

my best friend is haveing a baby today and well she lost on in january of 2006 and this is hard on her, she is really going through a hard time and is in need so comfort and i've tryed to be there and i've tryed to listen to her , and talk to her but she is havceing a really hard time and that makes me cry! i cant stand to see her in pain, the baby she is havein is a boy isacc micheal ans the baby she lost was a girl, emily rose and she was 7 months and 28 days old when she died, so the next 8 monthes are going to be full of worrie and full of pain as we try not to relive the past, i need help here
nessa

thanks amy and i to am truly sorry for your loss of tyler, krista, my friend, understands that you cant replace a baby and that is why she fills the way she does, she fills that her having another baby is an offence to emily rose, she fills that emily would want her to have another baby but she fills that she will end up replacing her if you understand.... she is very depressed and a little confusing

thanks for your help i think you have helped me just as much as i have tryed to help you thank you for that,
nessa

It's a tough one. My sister in-law lost her baby last year (August 2006) and she's due to have another one in a couple of months. her and my brother have been so strong. i honestly don't know how they do it! Their first child, Berlin, is a perfect beautiful little girl (turning 3 in May), but they want two kids. Matthew had to be aborted a couple of months before he was due - his lungs weren't properly developed and he only had three chambers in his heart. He would've spent most of his life in a hospital and would never have been able to attend a "proper" school. It wouldn't have been fair on Matthew. And least so far everything is going well with "our" next baby. Can't wait until it's born...