too advanced

he left me cuz i was too advanced for him, but i love him so much and i really want him back. he thought that since he was still a virgin and i wasn't that i would break up with him if i didn't like his performance. the thing is i love him so much and i wouldn't do that. now i am single and cry all the time cuz he'll never know that to me love is more important then sex. help me out what should i do?

Just tell him how much you love him and how much pain you're in without him in your life. If he doesn't come back to you after realizing how much you need him in your life then there must have been another reason for him leaving.

abby this is the love and romance forum

tears i cry, obviously because the poster followed abby's advice. It wasn't in this forum before.

Haha, if you want the relationship to inevitably end, then yes, tell the boy you are actually a virgin. If you want something to come of it...well, you find out the real reason behind him breaking up with you. He actually broke up with you due to his own insecurities, babe, then he's not worth your time anyway.

i really love him and if i was to talk to him and he said he didnt love me then i dont know if i could handle that. am i being to pathetic about this?

yeah i guess ur right. i will talk to him and write what he says. thanx for your help.

k thanx. you have really helped me. thank you.

You go girl!

he says that right now he doesnt want a gf cuz he is too busy and that he is scared i wont like him any more after we have sex and that if we did have sex and i did dump him, he would have just wasted his virginity on nothing. he needs time to think and he does still love me, he just needs to think things over

I don't like him either. He doesn't deserve to lose his virginity to you.

well i love him and how am i supposed to just forget about someone i love even if they are lying to me and making excuses?

How long exactly have you loved him? How old are you Natasha?

i have loved him for 8 months now and i am 17 years old

why did you want to know?

Don't have sex with him... If he's not ready and that is truly the source of his insecurities then just don't have sex!

i wasn't even rushing into sex. i didn't want to do that. i do love him and i wont rush into anything. i just want to be with him and if he needs to take time then i will give it to him. i am not a pushy gurl and since i love him i will wait a long time for him. so ya i hope you guys dont think i am being too pathetic cuz i really do love him.

we are talking again at least so ya thats good right?

well i have a guy that likes me but whenever i hang around him my ex gets jealous and i feel bad.