Problems

Heya umm.. yea i gt problems. well a problem... c im 16, an iv neva had a meaningful relationship b4.iv neva been on a d8, or out to the movies wth a chick. all my relationships have consisted of sex or heading toward sex. my problem is not having the BALLS to ask out any girl who myt actually want 2 b serious. 4 fear of rejection. is this rational???

Rational, yes, but not acceptable :) First off, use real words. That's one step to maturity.

Now...Fear of rejection? Everyone gets rejected sometime in their life, it's unavoidable if you ever want to be in a serious relationship. Confidence will win the hearts of many girls, but not all. Be a man! Chest out, chin up, sweet smile, and kind words. That'll do ya.

You'll soon find out that all the girls you are talking about, the ones that really want a relationship, are just as afraid as you are. You just have to screw up the courage to actually go up and talk to them, they're more accepting than you think! They won't know your interested unless you show it! Trust me on this one, there are plenty of girls who are looking for relationships who can't seem to find them. You just have to look
Much Love,
.:Danielle:.

if you never ask them, you'll never know if they would have said yes or not, just live life, and wait for something to happen to you, don't live in fear that it won't happen, or it won't.

'Everyone gets rejected sometime in their life, it's unavoidable if you ever want to be in a serious relationship.'

Wrong. I've never been rejected and I'm in the best relationship I could ever hope to be in. I asked once, got once.

It's about not being a dumba$$, in my opinion. All my mates went off banging girls left right and center, doing this doing that, choosing any girl they thought was half-hot. I waited until the right one came.

You're driven by inadequacy, and thus you are doomed to fail in love just like my mates.