We Should Just Be Friends.

I don't know what the heck happened but I feel so damn bad and embarassed. Wesley broke up with me saying we should just be friends. I had my grandma's trac phone with me and my friend was reading the messages I had on there and read the one with him saying "We should just be friends for now." I just broke down. I know it's so hard but I don't know what I did wrong. Maybe it is true, it takes more then 11 days to know you love someone. I can't believe I was such a fool.

He say's hes got too much in his life to have someone in his life at the same time too. So I said okay. And he said that he'd ask me back out when he isn't so busy.

Should I take him back or not? I dunno anymore.

Please help me.

I believe you should. Trust me, if they want to be just friends for now, they want to try and get their life situated so they can be with you and so it won't be messy. Try again and if it screws up, then know not to.

Ok. Thanks.

Any more advice?

Ok. that's what i've been doing right now. Just living my normal days before Wesley.

I found out a while ago that my grandpa (really my ex resident) I just call him grandpa cuz he is like one to me but his brother is back in hte hopstial again and yeah not expecting to live within 6 months.

I gotta get off im SOOOOO tired.

I hate to be the pessimist, but I'd say chances are he isn't going to ask you back out. He probably just said that to kind of lessen the impact of when he broke up with you.

It was only 11 days, that's hardly any time at all. Just get over him.

Don't you ever get that way when you really liked someone and you listen to the music that they let you listen to and then now you can't stop listening to it? And every time you listen to it, it just makes you think of the person again?

Yeah` I get that feeling . But y`knowwe . When he comes back, if you still wanna be with him -- if you think it`ll still work out & the spark is still there : Get back with him (: The guy wants to get everything straight with his life . You gotta understand taht .

Personally, if this guy is genuinely busy, then he will most probably come back to you. Just give him some time and space to think things over, his love life may not be 1st on his list, and you can't expect it to be either. Relax, love. And when he does come back, just talk things over; but try not to throw everything all on to him at once. Bye!x

You know it's amazing how every one has their side of a story in a simular case and you all admit your mistakes. You all voice your opinons and everything. That amazes me. Why cant everyone be like you guys?

Hahaha. It's not always easy voicing your opinion. Mind you, I suffer NO difficulty in doing it. :)

^Very true.

definetely

he will come back to you. and 11 days is enough time to fall in love so dont let anyone tell you otherwise. just live life for now and dont give up on him.