Going through tough times.

I got a really good friend that I've been friends' with for 2 months. I told him Wes and me broke up he finally admitted he was waiting for something like this so he could tell me what he really feels. He says even though he's 18 he really does like me and that I've kept his interest for so long while those other girls are just pushing him away by the way they act, talk, and their lifestyles. I've liked him for a while too. I don't want you guys to think I'm a player or anything because I'm not but the only way that you ever really move on is to actually forget what you've done with the past person but still know you were with them and just move on with someone else. It's like a monkey and a tree. But anyways, his name is Dennis and we got to talking for a while last night. I told him the only easy way out is to stop picking up the pieces with someone else when you really know in your heart their never going to come back or none of the problems are ever going to work out. And I had to drop the pieces and just step over it all. Yeah in later life I'll keep glancing back to see shattered pieces but to know it's the best for me to stop waiting for him to come back when I know he's probably not going to. Dennis told me that he really enjoys talking to me and if he ever asked me out if I'd say yes or if I'd just keep waiting for Wesley to come back. I told him Wesley is probably not going to ever come back from what I read on his profiles on myspace and hover. But you never know I could be wrong. And Dennis said that he'd wish I would give him a shot at it and see where it goes.

I'm just going through a hard time with guys right now and I don’t know what in the world to do. Should I give Dennis a chance? Like many of you say Wesley isn't probably going to come back to me anyways assuming it was 11 days. My best friends say I should give him a chance.

I thought Dennis was the odd, overbearing one?

Don't go out with someone JUST to get over someone else. Would you want to be used for that? As for Wesley... I'm sorry about how that turned out. That seems to be the way things are these days... the organization of life takes precedence over love. Strange... I've never had that luxury : ).

Good luck!

Aww hun, I'm sorry Wes didn't work out ((Mine didn't either)). You know what, go for this guy. By liking him, it doesn't mean you're a player, it just means you are moving on. Don't let people say that, they don't understand your situation. Hope things work out hun!!!

Ciao

I think you should move on too, however, although I'm not going to say anything about your relationship as I don't know you or him, in general, I don't think it's a good idea for a 14 year old to go out with an 18 year old.