between love and happiness

so this could be in the love OR friendship forum, but ill do it in this one...

anyhoo. so ive gotten to know this guy at school really well, we are both in the musical and hes just an all around nice guy. except every time i see him in the hall, and he is with his girlfriend, she gives me the meanest glare. well, there was talk that she had ¨stole¨ him from her best friend, and that she had a reputation as a b*tch. well, on monday he wasnt there because he was at his grandpas funeral, and at the end of the day, i saw her run after this guy and then she grabbed his hand and they were holding hands for the rest of the afternoon.

i though that they must have broken up because he wasnt his normal self on tuesday (though he did just come back from his grandpas funeral), but then TODAY i saw them together again, holding hands.

apparently they have been together for like 2 or 3 years, but they just never look like a couple, yet he always talks about her and you can see how much he loves her. and to top it all off, theyre planning to go to portugal together this summer.

but the thing is, he has a right to know if the girl he loves is two timing him, right? so should i tell him and let him know the truth or just let it go because its really none of my business?

I would strongly suggest you stay out.
It is none of your business

If you're friends with him then it is your business. However, I wouldn't say anything just because you saw her holding hands with someone else, that doesn't really tell u anything and if that's all you've seen then don't tell him. The one thing you don't want to do is accuse someone of cheating without knowing for sure.

true enough. and thats one thing i dont want to do, is wrongly accuse her of it. then none of us would be on good terms then...so im just gonna make sure that i stay his friend and hope that nothing else continues like that...but if it does, then i might need to say something...

but advice is still welcome!

anyone?

Don't be a coward, come on, let the poor guy know. If he chooses to believe you or not, that's that. No one deserves to be cheated on, if he doesnt believe you, then whatever. You tried to help a brother in need.

Stay out of it if you really want. If you are unsure or afraid to be involved, fine. Be a coward. Stay out of it.

why is everyone tellin gher she shouldnt tel her friend tht she hinks his gf is cheatin on him even if he doesnt believe it doesnt he have a right to be warned

and darl i strongly suggest you watch her to see if it was just that one time or if its more often just dont let her know you are watching her

between love and happiness there is a big hole and it's true

lol well ive figured out she only does it when hes not around (like when he wasnt at school that day), i mean, yea i gues thats 'smart' but i mean come on....a school of 2000 people and NO ONE will realize it? pfft.

and im basically spending half my spring break with him (we have to set up for our musical), so i'll probably get to talk to him without her there at all...
and yes,i WILL eventually say something..the thing that kills me though is that he has no freaking clue... he acts all normal around her and everything, and he's one of those relaly good guys that you would want to be your bf - i just dont get why shes using him like that.

i heard today that their trip is booked...will see him sunday, so ill probably talk to him then...

cuz whenever i was going to talk to him on tuesday (when i last saw him) his phone rang, and (guess what?) it was his gf