how do you tell her the truth without hurting her.

my best friend is dating a guy twice her age we're 18 and he is about 32 with an 8 yr old. how do i tell her that it could be a huge problem the age difference and the guys kid for a start not to mention that she has broken a friends heart he is shattered, she never has the time to care about us as her friends either she seems so obsessed about this guy. i dont know what to do about it. i dont want to completely lose her.

I think you should go out to lunch or something with her and talk to her about it. Tell her you care about her and you want what's best for her, and tell her you don't want to lose her as a friend.

Tell her straight out.
Tell her how you feel.
If you are true friends, she will listen to you no matter what and think about what you are saying.

You're being a better friend by wanting her to know the truth and hopefully she will understand that you care. I think you should take her out to lunch or something like segested before. break it to her gently and explain your concerns.

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well i mean just tell her the truth....tell her how u feel bout it....just as ppl said above take her out to lunch and talk to her bout it and hopefully she wont get upset...if u2 are true friends shell understand..