interracial love.

  • lexie
    17 years ago

    does anyone find interracial relationships wrong?

    i'm white and am dating a mexican.he is an amazing guy and the sweetest person i've ever met.he can also make me laugh for hours and keeps me smiling.

    but sometimes i can't help but notice the looks people give us.when we kiss in public some people tend to stare and say rude things.all of my friends don't mind and i don't either.i know my mom isn't doesn't like it to much.should that bother me?because it doesn't at all.

    i guess i'm just wondering if anyone sees anything wrong with different races falling in love.i know its been years since the whole black/white segregation.i sort of wonder if thats going to happen with white and mexicans...

  • Chrissie
    17 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with it at all! Love is love. The pigment in your skin doesnt mean anything. We are all humans and we are all the same. If you wanna be with him, you be with him. Do not let anything anyone says get to you. Be your own person, do what you want to do and fall in love with who you want to fall in love with.

  • SomewhereAmongThePieces
    17 years ago

    LOL I call my boyfriend a mutt... he's probably every race except mine (all Dutch).
    I have nothing to add because I could not have said the above any better myself.

  • xPerfect Chaosx
    17 years ago

    When you turn out the light, we're all exactly the same.

  • lexie
    17 years ago

    wow,this is all such a relief to know.thank you all so much for the support and advice.its means a lot.

    i grew up in a town with a high population of mexicans but never dated one until now.it still bothers me when people say things about us.but i think it will be easier to ignore now.

    you guys are right,it really shouldn't matter.as long as we both love each other and are happy together,which we are.

    does anyone else have anything to say?i'd love to hear your opinions.

  • TRiSHELLE BABy
    17 years ago

    Me and my sister have expericenced the same things as you...my parent dont really approve of us datin blacks but we feel if there love there there isnt a difference...

    love isnt a color love is a feelin between two ppl...and dont listen to ppl and dont let them get to you...just as long your happy it shouldnt matter wat other ppl think...like it may bother u they stare...but kiss ur boyfriend and rub it in their faces...there is ABSOULTELY nothin wrong with interracial relationships....

  • lexie
    17 years ago

    yes,when you turn out a light,we really are exactly the same.i love that phrase to. =]

    and if you thought i was trying to make a skin color name you're wrong.the town i live in doesn't descriminate on purpose,they just aren't use to seeing two people of different races together.its a small wisconsin town,i can't expect to much.
    i love him and every moment i spend with him,and i don't care what his heritage is.i was just curious if anyone did have a problem with interracial relationships.

    thanks again,for the support and the thoughts.anyone else have an anything to say?
    i'd love to hear it.

    --lexie

  • lexie
    17 years ago

    also to the girl who is dating a black,i hope your parents understand.my mom doesn't really like me dating a mexican,but i don't care.its who he is and how much he loves me that matters.not his skin color,and honestly,i think dark men are sexy.HAHA. =]

  • TRiSHELLE BABy
    17 years ago

    LEXIE MY AND DAD DONT APPROVE BUT THEY ARE LEARNING TO DEAL WIT...THEY SEE HOW NICE THEY CAN BE...NO MATTER WAT THERE SKIN COLOR IS...GODD LUCK WIT UR BOYFRIEND...AND DONT LET NEONE TELL U CANT DO NETHING YOU STRONGLY BELIEVE IN...JSUT GO FOR IT

  • Dan
    17 years ago

    dont worry about it im asian and ive dated puerto ricans, blacks, asians, and brazillians if you care for them then you care for them my mom doesnt really care anymore about who i go out with and my dad just wants someone i love and is nice to the fam so if you love him and care abotu him stay with him

  • The Lonely Rose
    17 years ago

    it doesnt really matter as long as u luv them..i mean they can b black, white,tan,blue purple....well tht cant happen but who cares luv is love...=D

  • silvershoes
    17 years ago

    Why would it be wrong? Are you racist? Well if you are, shut up and stick it!

  • tryinXtoXholdXmyXheadXup
    17 years ago

    we are all human and all the same color after dark,
    nessa

  • lexie
    17 years ago

    NO,i am not racist.i love my boyfriend with everything i have.i would never give any of it up just because of his skin color.

    i was just curious if people still have a problem with it,since no one i know really does.

    thank you again for all your support and honesty.i'd love to hear what anyone else has to say on this matter.

    --lexie

  • silence
    17 years ago

    why should it not exist?

  • limp
    17 years ago

    because it's asking a question which should be common sense?

    Interracial couples can still have love; the people staring and making fun aren't living your life and you should be happy to know your life isn't that sad you have to try and sabotage other peoples happiness.