Help from anyone who knows what to do!!!

Ok here it goes. Theres this guy at my school. I've known him for about 4 years. When i first met him i had a HUGE crush on him, but he was a year older and in middle school nobody dated an older or younger person..well i'm in high school now and he and i started talkin a lot more! it was great. he would call me and we would talk for hours on the phone until one of us had to get off..but heres the problem. Another girl started talkn to him as well. she has to be one of the biggest sluts in the whole school. he ended up doing "stuff" with her which tore me apart cuz i really liked this guy! One day..after i heard what happened...he acted really mad and just started yellin at me on msn..we haven't talked since! its been about 3 months which i know is a while to get over him but i constantally see him at school. I always try to avoid eye contact with him but we always end up lookin at eachother at some point. I still have feelings for this guy but have no clue what to do because he won't talk to me anymore. and i would be really nervous and scared to call and talk to him first. What should i do?!?!? Any help would be great!!!!!

Don't try to avoid him. Act like it was any other normal day before you got in the fight with him. You're letting him push you around and he thinks he has won. Act like you never got into a fight until he starts talking to you over the phone. Slowly get into a conversation, then express your feelings over a period of time. Just talk to him.

How did you find out that they did stuff? what if it wasn't true? If they did fool around...this guy might not be worth investing your feelings for (unless you can forgive him and he would be faithful to you afterwards). I've had a bit of a different situation. I had a conflict with a girlfriend I care for a lot...during the time we were apart...I met a very "easy-going" girl and we fooled around. My gf then changed her mind and we got back together...I told her about the other girl...my gf was bothered by it but decided to forgive me (I rejected the other girl and kept faithful to my gf). I suppose it's in our nature to pursue pleasure even when you already have a partner or a potential. I'm not quite sure why he would react that way when you tried to confront him about it...unless it didn't happen and he's mad at you for believing otherwise (is that the case??). Either way...it's not right for him to show you anger in that situation. It doesn't help with anything. You decide whether you forgive him and whether it's worth trying to contact him again cause I don't see him willing to bend himself for you unless...=P hehe.

well babe!! that really sucks!! i'm sorry!! but if i was you honestly, i would write him an e-mail and tell him that i was sorry that i freaked out about the whole thing because it was really none of my business what he did with other girls cause it's not like were together or anything!! but it hurt you cause you really like him and you thought he might have the same thing for you and so you just got your hopes up and they got crushed!! and then maybe just tell him you hope that things can work out so that you two can be friends again and your sorry for everything!! and then just hope the best out of all of it!!

Jess...why would she have to apologize?? and for everything?? I don't think she was wrong...

Thanks you guys for your help. I hope I have the courage!! Before he got m ad at me we talked on the phone and we talked about this girl. I told him i had heard about what had happened and he actually admitted it. I don't know what the problem was but when we talked about it on msn the next night he said he was done and just logged off. I don't know that i would like him like that anymore but i would like to be friends with him again. I hate to just leave it like it is. Besides, it stinks to have to avoid him everyday at school!! Thanks again!