What should I do??

i was goin out with this guy and i loved him more than anything!! so for valentines he bought me a promise ring and everything!! and i thought everything was perfect when out of the middle of no where he just decided that things were to hard and we needed to break up!! so, i tried to keep in touch with him for a while and whatever, then i finally gave up!! and now he's been calling me and telling me he loves me and misses me and wants me back!! but he also cheated on me in the past and went out and banged some other chick!! so should i just tell him to f*** off and move on, or should i give him another chance?? cause i love the guy and want more than anything to be with him?? i mean whats a girl sapossed to do??

Hun, I hate to say it, but "Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater" I tried to give my ex a 2nd chance, but he did it again. Try looking for someone else.

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I don't think it's fair to say "once a cheater, always a cheater". I cheated once before...and I've never since...because the guilt is still overwhelming when I think about it. It really depends on the person. You should judge for yourself whether a person is worth a second chance and not base it on a bias view (of guys or cheaters)...people change if the reason for it is strong enough.

well, I guess you have a point...

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wow...to the above...me likes you already. Firm, stern, but fair...

Yup...I agree with what you said :D she shouldn't make it too easy if she want him to realize his mistake. The girl I cheated on made it easy for me. She chose to forgive me right away. Because I love her, I won't ever do it again to her or to any one else. To repeat myself...it really depends on how strong the reason for action is.

Oh and yea...guys do it more often...cause we're just idiotic at times haha.

haha ^^ maybe I was just too soft on my ex... loser he was! haha great advice... wish I would've read this when I needed it...

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Toronto. How about you?

I think it's the human-imperfect that makes us perfectly human hehe

I love poems...just that I've only been here 2 days...haven't gotten around to posting any yet. chaotically_me@hotmail.com if you wish to add me. I was just helping my cousin with her homework on poems haha...came across this site...pretty fun here and lots to read and write.