a kiss

Sometimes when I watch movies where a couple share a kiss I get a kind of unexpected ache in my chest and wonder if I'll ever get to do something like that with someone. Then a voice in my head tells me that I probably won't, that I'm not good enough to deserve love.
Is this unusual, to be thinking about kissing someone and pining for love, a relationship, a kiss, etc, when you're only 14?

//T.L.//

I wouldn't KNOW whether it's unusual or not, but I don't think it would be. Also don't worry about finding that special someone, you have plenty of time to do that.

Agreed with Tony, you have plenty of time. And I don't think it is unusual, I think it is quiet normal actually, at some point in everyones live they will think about that whether it be during a movie or a school lecture or driving, etc. It can be anywhere is what I mean. I think it's totally normal.

Hollywood is crap. You'll get a real kiss later, be patient.

You're only 14 so you've got heaps of time. And it never ends up like the 'Hollywood Kiss'. Your first kiss is messy, wet and, well, embarrasing. So good luck with it!

im sorry, but i have to disagree. im 14, and my first kiss was the most amazing thing in the world. (lol, im still going out with the guy who i had my first kiss with, and there's no end in sight) it turns out different for different people. some might have to wait for a while. i know, for me, i found my hollywood romance, and im not letting him go.

You know what? i was praying for love from God when i was only 13 :)
So in my opinion it isn't unusual

Oh, i used to feel like that.
I was a late starter with boys cos i was never comfortable with one so i was like that up until i was 16.
But trust me, the feeling doesn't last and it's worth the wait.
What you're feeling is totally normal so don't dwell on it. You're fine =)
*Gem*

Yea. thats normal. =]

i had my first kiss and it was hollywood...too bad it didnt work out. since i haven't been able to see a movie with a kiss scene without getting the ache in my chest, and i almost start to cry. i got my first ikss like...2 weeks before i turned 16 though. i miss him so much...:-/ but i feel the same as you. i hope for both you, and myself, that we find our hollywood kiss. good luck to you.

yeah totally normal. especially when you're young too. well, no, at all ages thats normal. i know sometimes i get so silly and say "oh i'll never have something like that" and i'm just 18. love comes at all different stages/ages.

See... when i get this feeling in the pit of my stomack... it's kinda like nerves mixed with the butterflies... especially when i'm with my boyfriend!!!! I think it's totally normal!!!

Its normal to ache for that kind of stuff. And believe me, when it happens, you won't recieve the same reaction you got when you saw it in a movie, to say the least.

However, I think you should be more concerned about that little voice you mentioned, the one that says that you aren't worthy of love? Yeah, don't listen to it at all.

If you've never had an intimate kiss before, then I would say that yes it's normal to yearn for one, and yes, I would suppose that if it hasn't happened yet, I can see where you would think that you're not deserving of love, but that sooooo isn't true *hugs*... If anything, NOT having this experience yet makes you that much better than someone who has already wasted their first kiss.

The above post couldn't be any closer to the truth =).. when it happens, it won't feel nearly the same as it does when you see it in the movies... It'll be 10 times more sensational.

not really im 14 myself and when i see tht i ache for it too....well i got my first kiss...and it was amazing..not wet or messy..he was a great kisser *red* but its not unusual i ache for it all the time...lik now..still do..

Wow I must be really screwed up here =P
Ok I didn't get my first kiss until feb. of this year *I'll be 17 in april* and it was with my first love. I loved him and it was really nice since he was great at it but I ended up going to far WAY to fast. But you know what? For being in love with him I didn't really feel all that much while kissing him and I don't know why =P But yes, it's very normal to be wanting that kind of love at your age *or any age for that matter* =) I started to want it and get that feeling everytime I saw it either in a movie or people around me when I was 6 =P It's just gotten worse the older I get lol

It's not unusual. Don't EVER go thinking you're not good enough for love, or don't deserve it. Love isn't about whether or not your good enough for everyone, because it's only you and the other person. You'll get a kiss someday, and it's probably not that far away. Like some of the others have said, just be patient.

-Rose

Oh god...my first kiss...well, no, my first kiss by choice (blame idiots and truth or dare ><)...no words can describe...utterly amazing. nothing could compare. buuut, i can honestly say i was in love with the person LONG before we kissed...and even when we kissed it was still sort of an accident. she tripped. we were listening to Here (In Your Arms) by HelloGoodbye on her cd player...the world fell away...the music, couldnt even hear it...completely overwhelming and amazing by far. wait for the right person...otherwise, it might as well not happen at all <---my opinion.

I wouldn't call it unsual. When I was fourteen there was guy I liked but didn't know how to tell him. So every time I watched a movie where a couple shared a romantic kiss my heart ached. So your not the only one I promise.