Nothing but lies....

been there and yea it sucks you do feel like an idiot but that will pass then you get revenge on him one way or another, good or bad, and you arent just another player in his game dont belive that ok?

I went through that a couple of months ago. Had a guy sweet talk me every time i talked to him. Then told me he wanted to be with me so I thought he was my boyfriend (we never did anything sexually) and then one day I said something and he was like 'I'm not your boyfriend. Why would you say that' but got extremly jelious if I talked to another guy. Always called me his girl in front of all of his friend ect. Then told me that he loved me. Dissapeared for about a week and then came back. I said something about the love thing and he said 'there are alot of differnt kinds of love'. i've just decided don't hate the player hate the game. they don't know any better i don't guess. Unfortunatly he's dead now. He got shot 3 times in the chest about a month later.

Well apparently he didn't care too much if he couldn't wait for your answer (I know that sounds bad. I'm sorry) and it sucks that he did that too you. Maybe your at one of those stages where you just kinda gotta step back and re evaluate yourself. I'm kind of glad things happened the way they did with me and Mike (the guy that got shot) because it made me really pay attention to what guys said and not get so wrapped up in it.

well look at it this way. If you would have gone out with him just because you 'didn't want to be left alone anymore' then he would have been a rebound and it wouldn't have worked anyway. So you just saved yourself a best friend :) now he can still be there for you when you need him even though he has a girlfriend. And you can help him when they break up like he helped you. Maybe you weren't meant to go out with him right now. Maybe you're meant to wait until you get over your broken heart.

yup yup :) see not as bad as you originally though huh? feeling better now? :)

you'll know better next time :) just a learning experience. don't let it effect ya too bad. Glad you feel better though :)