should i say

ok i asked some chick out but didn't get a reply for over a month and still haven't so naturally i got me another girl well since prom is on dec 10th and all the girls are screwed up because of it i'm wondering whether i should tell jen (no reply) about the other chick say i wanna still be friends etc. or ask jen to the prom

p.s. my girlfriend now can't go to the prom because she dont go to my school

well jst wodnering ,, since when cant u bring soemone from anotehr school to ur prom?? and if 4 whatever reason ur gf cant go i hope u tell her ur takign anotehr girl as ur date itd b kinda rude not to tell her and make sure shes okw ith it.. and whatever girl u take should b just a friend ne way if u alrdy have a gf .

ya but you dont understand it's like in the army officers are of more importance than enlisted well the girl i asked out first is of more importance for no

I think you should ask jen as friends. But maybe she's trying to tell u something by not replying.........

no really i didn't figure out what she meant by not saying anything

I think you should take a deep breath & and calm yourself...lol...
Is Jen your good friend or she/you like eachother?
Which one do you wanna go with your g.f. or Jen?..hehe:D
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hehe...Ours is May :p...lol

we have christmas one and a grad one @ end of the year

i wanna go out with jen but since im not...
and i met jen at school this year and our lockers r beside each other so we talk alot

wow. i'm confused. so your gf is in another school... who was the girl you asked out a month ago? was it jen or someone else?

i asked out jen but am now goin out with some one else

Wow. I understood it there at the begining but I got totally lost. So I will say whatever sounds good and if I'm totally off shoot me! Well Jen is the none reply chick right? Well seems you like her. But your g/f's at a different school. (correct so far?) Jen said nothing so you decided to go with another girl since Jen was non-responsive. My question to you is Do you really like your girlfriend? Or is she just a sub for Jen? If so get outta that relationship, because your not being real with her nor yourself. I think if you want to take Jen then go for it. But you better be able to maintain a friendly personality that night. Don't let things get outta hand! Talk to your g/f about it. See how she feels. Girls act differently about that kind of stuff. But don't forget if you take Jen to prom, and your g/f is okay with it then you have to be just as supportive when she does something similar! Hope that helps some.

-BJ
Email me if you want further advice. browneyedrn4@hotmail.com

...Bravo BJ..lol...:D
Dang.. Your just right on TARGET:p...lol

thx brown eyes the the first real advice i got like you actually told me to do this and that and my girlfriend isn't a sub i like her too but jen more

Thanks FireFighterGurl I know I was exact! I did a good job : )

If you like Jen more then I suggest you get out of the relationship with your girlfriend. It just doesn't seem right. Think how your girlfriend would feel if she knew that about you? It just ins't fair to your girlfriend. Your not really doing anything wrong by liking Jen more its just the fact that your heart isn't in the right place. If you truly like Jen then I think you should quit dating your girlfriend and try to either get closer to Jen and see how things work. (the best things take time!) Or try to pull yourself emotionaly from her. Just my opinion.

-BJ

:D your welcome BJ

I agree with ya (BJ)..
You should figure out what's going on with Jen and you..but then you have a g.f. and that's hard.. Cuz I don't think you would wanna hurt her:| I kinda know where you're coming from with all of this! A guy at my school (I think still has feels for me..I'm Not sure) but he got a girlfriend! But the thing is he liked my since 7th grade..Well that's what I heard:p..hehe..And I'm a Senior now.. *Man, you guys are strang sometimes..lol.. Some of us girls just get hurt cuz of you man:p..lol..* But anyways, Be patient..Love is always there (sometimes) :p..

Question: "Why did you go out with your girlfriend in the first place when you have more feels with Jen?" ...

*Sedusha*

**~** Nimphilius**~**
-Note to you-
NO ONE DIDN'T WANT TO KNOW THAT...AND NO ONE CARES...

first of all i think that askin some other chick to the stupid prom is pretty stupid. if i has a boyfriend and he couldnt take me to a prom then i would think that he would stay with me and go out or something. and takin another chick to the prom(i think)is like cheatin on ur gurl......just think about it that way

first of all, Brian asked for help, he didn't ask if you cared. And for another if your not here to help him don't waste your time to post. Don't be so rude.

Also. I don't think its cheating. How is it cheating if your not doing anything physically with the other person accept dance and have a good time. What is he supposed to do? Cut off all communications with friends so it can be all about her? Deffinately not! And if his g/f has no complaints I think its totally cool. Although it would be really sweet if he stopped by her house to give her a little gift or something to surprise her. I think you have a point about him going out and having fun and her being alone but maybe shes out doing something of her own. I deffinately don't think he should leave her home alone but instead suggest some things for her to do.

-BJ

thx for all the advice im still incredible confused if not more but just one simple question your opinion based on all the stuff you know: should i ask jen to the prom as friends, or more (only after my g/f gone) or not at all?

If its just as friends I say yes.

-BJ

i agree with you brown eyes

but what if i dump my girlfriend and ask her as more?

Although I'd feel bad for your girlfriend I think you should dump her. Whether you decide to ask Jen to be your girlfriend or not I think you should dump your gf. Work on Jen for now. You really like her! Let her know. Don't be shy and if you need ideas on how to convince Jen your worth it I am here to help. But don't ask Jen anything until you dump your girlfriend!!! Just needed to make that clear.

-BJ

well i dumped my girlfriend but i know jen wouldn't say yes if i just asked her

You dumped your g/f? Howd that go? Hopefully she didn't talk it too hard. As far as Jen. Well I think you should work more on your friendship for the time. Prove to her your always going to be there for her. I'm not telling you to buy her things, because thats not the most important thing. Do other things. Do things that she will always remember. Things that will remind her that your always thinking of her. As soon as you think you have got her attention break it to her. Tell her how you feel and that you want nothing more than to be with her. If you wait forever she may date other guys just because she doesn't know how you feel. And if you don't give it a shot you will never get the chance to be with her. At least if you take the chance you will have a 50/50 chance but if you never try you have no chance at all.

-BJ

I totally agree with BJ :D...