JUST FEELIN A LIL UN LOVED...PLEASE HELP

OK WHERE DO I START...I HAVENT HAD A TRUE BOYFRIEND FOR ALMOST TWO YEARS...WAS ABOUT TO GO OUT WIT THIS ONE GUY BUT HE TOLD ME I WAS TOO MUCH FOR HIM TO HANDLE...I TRY TO TALK TO GUYS AND GET TOGETHER WIT THEM AND STUFF AND ILL I SEEM TO DO IS DRIVE THEM AWAY...WAT DO I DO HOW DO I CHANGE..IT HARD BEING ALONE...IM SAD...PLEASE HELP

This a little worn out but, be your self, I dont like a girl if she changed for a guy, or for me either.

Just try to be nice above all else. If you treat someone with respect they will automatically like you, even if it's just as a friend. You have to start a relationship somewhere and friendship is an alright way to do so.

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i agree. just be yourself, and eventually it will come

but in the meantime, be patient( if at all possible). to avoid being alone, spend time focusing on friendships and stuff...and who knows? some of those friendships could turn into the relationship you want

try not to work too hard to get a guy to like you
be casual about it talk to guys be yourself be nice to them
eventually one will start to like you

When it's going to happen it will happen not before. Just relax, be yourself and let love find you.

It's not called being alone...
it's being in the process of finding some company =P

meah...I've been without a functional, "real" relationship for a while too. You're right...it does get pretty cold and lonely at times...I find especially while I'm lying in bed alone (not that that's where my company usually lies) haha. It's the "someone special" in your possession that's hard to make up for.

I hate to agree with people that tell me to "be patient" and "just be myself" haha =P but they are right...so I'm smiling my charming smile and dishing out honest compliments to girls...if not to go towards anything flirtatious...then only to try to make them smile back. "Time flies when you're having fun" haha

thank ^^ joseph... i just i dont understand why its so hard...i feel alone cuz i dont go out cuz ppl dont invite me to go newhere and stuff...like its frustrating...and i cry myself to sleep cuz im so lonely...like the past couple days have been even harder cuz the guy i was gonna b wit a lil bit ago is playing wit my emotions even more...and mayb he still likes me but its hard to not want him...or w/e ugh im so confused lonely and wanting compassion

that's understandable..it wouldn't be as interesting if it's easy. It's gonna be like that. When you're alone..it just feels like it keeps growing. It feels like your out of communication with the rest of the world and that most don't really care. Embrace your space alone...you can use this time to look in-ward...you can find out new things about yourself or you can make sure of things. Take it as a chance to evaluate your life. Where it's been...where it is now...where you want it to be later on. Try to avoid that guy for a bit...if he can't make up his mind...it's not worth hanging there in tears for him. Oh and I replied one of your poems hehe...it's not the best return...but take a look..it's on your comments page.

JOSEPH UR A SWEWETHEART...YOU HAVE HELPED ME A LOT...ALONG WIT THE OTHERS...THANKS FOR ALL THE HELP UVE CALMED ME...I WAS CRYING ON THE LAST RESPONSE...I KNOW I NEED TO LEAVE THAT GUY ALONE FOR A BIT...BUT HES SUCH A GOOD FRIEND IT HARD...I SHOULD START FINDING THINGS INSIDE MYSELF...THANKS...WOULD LOVE TO HEAR WAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY

He doesn't seem like such a good friend if he's making you cry. My advice, and trust me it works, is to STOP looking. My mother always told me that love would come and hit you out of left field, and lol, trust me, it really really does. If you just stop looking for someone to be with, it will happen all on it's own. Trust me, I know that works because it happened to me. I was hurting about this guy who told me he liked me, then told me it wasn't going to work out and ended up kissing one of my good friends (which I have no hard feelings over, because I had no claim on him, he is a as*hole anyway, and they never did end up going out) and she then dragged me to our school's Snowfest Dance, where I met Mike. We ended up talking and dancing the whole night. Two days later, we went to the movies with a group of friends, and he ended up asking me out. It's been about a month and a half now. Now, you see, it really really really does come out of NOWHERE!!!!! lol. Just stop looking for it, and love will find you

Hoped this helped, and btw, a girl as nice as you will find someone I'm sure, someone who loves and respects you.
Much Love and Happy Hunting(lol)
.:Danielle:.

THANKS GUY FOR THE HELP...WAS MUCH NEEDES