How To Get Through? Im Broken and Lost.

me and my b/f just broke up and im soooooo lost and hurt. i was really fallin' in love with him too and now he's dating my ex b/f...yea he's bi. the bi thing doesn't bother me cause im bi too but he cheated on me n everything. i still do love him but i don't know he said he doesnt know if the relationship he's in now will last that long and he probably will come back to me....i don't know what to do. should i let him back? or should i let him see he had me in the palm of his hand and he let me fall forever?

oh goodness gracious.
look, you do what you want.
but hun, he cheated on you.
any man who cheats is not trust worthy.
and just for that right there, you shouldn't take him back.
it's life.
move on get over it, and find someone who you can trust.

oh, and you're in no one's 'palms' but your own sweetie.

thanks...im really trying to get over it even tho its really hard to do. im pretty sure if he comes back i'll turn him down. even tho i still will love him a lot and i kno that wont ever change.

Thanks
Broken*From*A*Broken*Love

wow...are u serious? u are considering wether to take him back or not? u must be CRAZY!!!!! tell that little mother-fUcKeR to go to hell and dont EVER let another guy cheat on you! get a straight boyfriend and show him off a little. make the guy that cheated on you jealous. dont ever make it seem like he was a part of your life, treat him like dirt. take my advice, he is a bItCh and you dont want him back in your life at ALL!!!!!!

This sounds familar.

happened to me ...
except without the bi stuff.
yeah, i got dumped.
and he went out with a chick i know..
then i was stupid enough to take him back.
because i thought i loved him.
but the truth is, he stuffed everything up.
you shouldnt have to be there waiting, for when HE'S ready to come back to you.
to me, guys have no right to do that..

but in the end, i spose if you love him. &you think maybe giving him a second chance will help.
Then do it.

Just make sure you're doing what YOU want.
&i know it's hard to say no when you love someone that much. not saying you have to take him back, because you may still love him or whatever...
Just saying, do what you feel is best.
but also, dont be afraid to say no.

good luck. X :]

Honestly, I wouldn't take him back. Trust is a MUST in a relationship.. And if you are going to always be worried about him leaving you for someone else at any given time, then you can't really trust him. I was going out with this guy, and one day he asked me if I would allow him to go out with this girl he had dated, and if he liked her more than me, we'd break up, if that wasn't who he wanted he'd keep me.. I was like.. No way, you've got to be kidding.. I told him to have a nice life with her, and so he made me feel guilty and then broke up with me because I wouldn't "Fight for him" and he didn't want a girl like that.. It hurt, but you learn to get on with your life.. Though you will always love him, your love for him can change. And now, I still love and care about him, always will.. But I am inlove with the guy I am with now, more so than I was with him.. My love formy ex changed, it will always be different now. I personally believe that you can't fall out of love.. Love will change, but if you truly love someone it will remain forever.
So, I said that all to say, getting on with your life without him, is hard..but doable, and will be better for you in the long run, trust me, girly. Don't be someone's left overs, you're better than that. Keep your head up. You will see that someone else better will come along one day. =)

If you need to talk, email me at CrazygirlAlly93@hotmail.com

I'll be happy to talk to you if you need a shoulder to cry on. =) Goodluck. *Hugs*

Seriously,

DONT TAKE HIM BACK

that would be a BIG mistake, you need to move on, thats the only thing that will make you happy. Trust me i've been there.

Good luck, it wont be easy
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