How much, how many.

The West disgusts me. YOU disgust me.
So many people have 'been around' before they settle into a real relationship. In my short years, I've kept my integrity to the fullest extent so that when I did enter the relationship of my life (which I have), it would be the best and we could experience everything to the fullest and freshest joy.

It digusts me when I read about how many relationships people have had here, how far they have gone and how many times. You are all wh***res! Whilst I was discussing random thoughts with my friend in Chemistry the other day, we realized that every girl in our class is a slut.

My girlfriend is very decent, but she has also had past experience. Whether this is due to naivety, immaturity, hormones or simply culture, I don't know, but it irritates me, it makes me experience negative emotions, and I don't want to.

Don't you people feel to any extent immoral, or odd, or I dunno, just...strange, when you are touching/loving your partner, knowing that someone has been here amorously before?

Or is it just some seriously messed up culture?

They say if you really want to understand a person's soul, you must just take a close look at what really upsets them..

Think about that.

All my love.

Iola

:-)

Thank you very much I am NOT a whore. I am a virgin, and plan on staying that way until marriage. Now, I have to agree with Jordan on the fact that you say the West disgusts you, yet you sit there and say that all the girls in your class are sluts.. Hmmm... seem to contradict yourself.

Now, I have to say though, you make a legimate point about people passing themselves around, and that they have no morals anymore, and yes, it also disgusts me, but what irks me is that you say ALL of us are whores, that isn't true, some of us still have morals and stick to them.
.:Danielle:.

k.
well, when you feel, i don't remember the word you used so i'm using my own. awkward touching your partner, who you love, then you're not ready.
it's not because she's been with other men, even if that's all you think about. it may bother you..
but, hun when you are ready, that won't come to mind.
you'll be able to overlook her PAST, and realize she loves you as of now, and hopefully as of the future. if you're not ready to give it up, then don't.
especially, if you're not ready to overlook her past.

wait, you didn't say you didn't give it up to her, just that you felt weird..
k, if you feel weird, and you have given it up, i suggest you stop. but from what i've read, i don't think you have, hun...
but i could be wrong. ;]

baha. i'm done now.

"It digusts me when I read about how many relationships people have had here, how far they have gone and how many times. You are all wh***res!"

^HAHAHA. Well, SOMEONES on a ROLE today!

You have a brilliant attitude to these matters, don’t you, Matt? Eh. I applaud you. :)

YOU (sad creator of this topic) digust us...
don't assume everyone here is from the "west"...I, for one, am from the "east"
People share out of love and passion. You're idiotic enough to think it's naive, immature, hormone-based and bad-cultured.
You're the one who still can't grow up...can't face your body's signals and have no sense, what so ever, what is culture. You, my lost friend, can really use a big dose of GO SCREW YOURSELF...hey...maybe you'll find some blissful moments and realize our passion with physical relationships =P
I suppose you'd like a girl-friend that came in a can...one you can open up and savour...then throw away because she's now touched and therefore no longer touchable...

You (creator of this topic) REALLY DISGUSTS ME. Not all girls are wh***res. Have you had a look around you at all of the guys. I bet most of them have had at least 3 or 4 girlfriends, and they have probably f***ed them all. One guy at my school has had at least 5 or 6 grilfriends in 2 yrs.

Maybe your just doing this because you have a boring F***ED up life. And you have nothing better to do then to rant on how much of a wh***re us girls are. U R ONE SICK PERSON!!

Also, I have never had a boyfriend so I AM NOT A WH***RE!!!!

OUCH L.in.L. There was a time I had 5 gfs in a 2 year period...that makes me a whore? hehe things just didn't work out..I didn't sleep with them all..
ok..men are whores...yes..we have idiotically/constantly active sex-drives so in a way we are more whorish...haha

I think we're all just a bit angry with this topic here..every one...let's calm down and evaluate. Myself include...I was pretty pissed off haha...This isn't worth getting angry over...there are bound to be jerks out there...and in here. I suppose this is part of what drives some of you into believing there aren't any good guys left...though the profile on the crazy one does say "female". Anyway...we should just rant and then ignore. Focus your energy on poetry and constructive things :) In a way...I'm glad for this post...next to that one (if the person is a male)..I seem like a nice guy haha...

Hahaha
wow. What an interesting topic! Man I am good. Well, I couldn't possibly address all these, somewhat emotive points, so i won't. Though for the record, Abby was absolutely and astutely correct:

'Generalisation is his style. He can't move mountains blade by grass blade.'

I didn't expect anyone to really get that. Hmm. I feel sick from having too much egg for breakfast.

Perhaps I will address some of your points when I have more time. Now, I must email my love and go to a squash tournament. Adieu!

You know what, I think you write stuff like this just to see how much of an angry reaction you can get.... (which I am guilty of, lol)...

.:Danielle:.

"You know what, I think you write stuff like this just to see how much of an angry reaction you can get"

^No. He actually IS being severely serious.

I didn't say he didn't have a right to his opinion, I just said I thought he wrote it to see what type of a reaction he could get. Maybe I was wrong, that's just what it seemed like to me.
.:Danielle:.

I suppose to an extent we do...cause we have those "get together with your pals and talk about sex" moments (we don't plan it...it just happens and some girls hate us for that kinda sharing..that's a different topic though) haha...and if you haven't done anything...you're just an out-sider.

Men are sensitive creatures too so yes...we do feel the pressure as well. To please and be pleased...to understand and be understood. Though I think we do apply more pressure on the girls because of our more active/less-restraint sex-drives.

I don't think it's wrong for people to share what they want...just as the original topic of this forum was set out to be. I suppose it also requires a certain level of responsibility with whether people would want to hear it and how people would react to it. It's not nice for him to post that and call people whores and sluts...it would be like walking into a room full of poets and saying "I hate poetry and you all suck at it". It's just not nice...it's nothing serious...but in my mind and for whatever it's worth...I won't forgive that.

Wow, that's the biggest assumption I've ever met. All West Coast people are sluts? Half my friends are virgins. Honestly, I myself, am not, but I really cared about the person I gave myself to and frankly, I don't feel like I need to justify myself. A "slut" is someone who screws everybody without emotion, possibly without protection (a very dangerous act I have never engaged in) and dresses trampy for sexual attention (in my opinion). Besides, dont knock it until you tried it. You have no right to judge anyone.

Nuovo, I believe you have an Inferiority Complex. Do you know the meaning? I would hope so. More males are sluts than females. More females are taken advantage of than males. This is a known truth. Do not let your vagina envy get the best of you, naming each female you know, a "slut," including the one whom you claim to love.

You are 15 years old, little boy, that is very young to be in a romantic relationship. Call yourself a naive whore, consumed by "some serious messed up culture", along with those whom you point fingers at. Your jealousy of Helen's past experience will haunt you, your inferiority will destroy you, your unreturned sacrafices will lead you to your demise.

Inexperience is the fruit of your ignorance.

Nuovo and Abby...The worshipped worships the worshiper.

Don't you people feel to any extent immoral, or odd, or I dunno, just...strange, when you are touching/loving your partner, knowing that someone has been here amorously before?

Or is it just some seriously messed up culture?

1. Yes.
2. Define 'it.'

I generally think you are all wrong. In some cases you are right but most you are not. Calling someone a "Wh***e" is a bit 'overrated'. Most people use the word in anger or frustration. Maybe even jealous. But to call someone that without getting to know them or not knowing the facts and just calling them that for no proff. Is more of a crime then them being a so called 'Wh***e'. The word has no meaning and has been thrown around for different uses and not once has it ever stayed in that posistion.

This is how wars gets started.. =/

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