Let Down After Let Down...

hey. im kinda venting 'cause i can't tell anyone about this and be all like BLAH without ppl calling me emo.
yeah, so i like 5 people..yeah kinda a lot, but i've liked them all for at least 7 months...my longest being 6 yrs...so i told guy 1, he said he doesnt like me. guy 2, said he kinda liked me but then my EX-friend went and asked him out and so now he's taken -.-. guy 3 i've liked for 6 years, but he doesn't like me more then a friend at all, though he flirts with me CONSTANTLY so blah-.-. guy 4 and 5 just found out i like them this week. kevin (guy 4) says that we couldnt work out because he's 2 years younger then me, and we don't go to the same school. jimmy (guy 5) i just told this morning...and he doesn't like me.
that's kinda sad! all this time i've spent liking these guys, and not one of them likes me!
look how long i've liked all of them (i'm rounding for some)
1- 2 yrs, 6 months, 22 days
2- 11 months, 3 weeks
3- 6 years, 2 mnths
4- 1 years, 11 months, 3 weeks
5- 6 months, 28 days

that's a LOT of my life that i've wasted liking people without any hope!

what can i do? why is it that no one likes me? guys, or girls even, what are some things that make guys like girls. i try everything, and i get nothing. i need help...
im getting kind of hopeless...

Erika

try and find out what type of girls these guys go for.. usually its the girls with long hair, big butts, big boobs, and thin, and popular girls. well, that's kinda a given, but maybe you should just spread your wings a little and find some other guys. flirt with guys and maybe a serious realtionship will start. hope some of my advice will work...maybe. :)

it's not that these people never -could- like you; they just haven't had the chance. you're not doing something wrong either, you're 16, and it may drive you nuts but you still have forEVER to force somebody into liking you :]!
don't put yourself down about 'wasting' your life, because you haven't wasted it, you've done other stuff in the meantime too. as soon as you like somebody, get to know them & try and let them get to know you, and THEN ask them if they like you, don't leave it that long that you find yourself doing this all over again.
x

wow, BANGBANG is pretty intelligent! those words are sooo true! also, dont forget that if you cant see yourself married to them in the future, then u know they are not the one. like BANGBANG said, you still have FOREVER to find someone.... but you shouldnt force someone into likeing you, that's just wrong. but good luck at finding someone true!

baha.
bangbang is amazing.
i agree with her.
OF COURSE!
lmao.

i just got back from seeing guy 4 and 5 tonight. guy 5 is still perfectly fine with me, and even has gone back to his friendly flirting we do all the time. it was terrible with 4 though...we were standing RIGHT next to eachother...he talks to my friend, hugs her, and as he's leaving says 'hi'. GOD. i feel so ugly. i know it'll take time, but it hurts so much for me to be alone.

if you like some one and your not shy to let them know. tell them from the second week or something. find out if they like you. if there was someone that doesnt like you, then there is no reason to waste your time thinking and dreaming of them. if he likes you then go ahead and start something.

if you leave your feelings hidden for a long time and then it turns out that they dont like you. it will hurt a lot cuz then you will remember the times you wasted just thinking about them and stuff, and then it turns out that they dont like you. tell them how you feel from the beginning.