i feel bad

  • allison
    17 years ago

    my name is brittani (im allison's sister) and my fiance and i just broke up for 3 whole days. we are not going to talk to each other for 3 days, when we have talked to each other everyday for 7 months!!! i am soo sad and mad, i dont know what to do. i kinda started the fight, but i cant survive that long without talking to him. what am i supposed to do?

  • The Queen of Spades
    17 years ago

    ok no...thats lame. the whole "let him call". Stuff like that just perpetuates games. And if I'm engaged to someone, I don't know about you, but I would be DONE playing games. And "clingy". They're getting MARRIED. Everyone needs breathing room but they're going to need to learn how to be around each other even when they're not 100% happy. Especially if they have kids.

  • Lauren
    17 years ago

    OK sorry I don't actually have anything important to say. I just wanna tell you that it's pretty funny reading what you guys say to each other. In answer to the original question though, I think you should take some time out so you can tell if you really love him or not. If he really loves you then he'll call

  • ~me~
    17 years ago

    Dont wait for him to make the first move
    if you want to get back together than you should be the first to appoligise
    but if that dosnt work
    mabey youve just driffted appart?

  • Gem
    17 years ago

    Take the plunge and call him. Whats the worst that could happen.. three days though.. it's not that bad..
    How old are you exactly.. =/

  • HOLLYWOODxBANGBANG
    17 years ago

    I actually agree with Doug on this one, I have been there many times in my relationship and it does help to give him some time.

    If you guys are fighting and you are around each other, odds are you're just going to wind up fighting more and saying things that you'll wish you'd never said. Give him some space, and take the time to think it through yourself.

    And besides, haven't you ever heard the saying.."If you love something let it go, if it's yours it'll come back; if not - it was never meant to be"?